Sandy - still here with us

[journeyofjoy]

He has been in this transition stage for almost 48 hours. We thought he was going then. He seems peaceful and is pain free.

The party went forward as planned and I'm so glad. All the family and a few friends were here. It was perfect. The kids have been staying and we're all finding places to sleep in our rather small house. It's wonderful. Sitting with my husband, wondering if his next breath is the last, while at the same time hearing our seven week old granddaughter crying from the other end of the house...God's perfect timing.

So much love surrounding Sandy as he prepares to go. Maybe that's why he is still here.

Blessings abound in the midst of this sadness.

[Dadshelper]

I am glad everyone got there and that a few are staying.

Hospice noticed mottling on Dad's feet Thursday morning. He ate a bit of food Thursday, Fri and couple spoons of chocolate pudding on Sat. By Sat evening he had become mostly unresponsive and hospice started morphine. Dad stayed that way until very early Tues morning, he just stopped breathing. I know everyone is different but that was Dad's timeline.

Ron

[Hidden]

A hard place to be in. Glad the party went well.

[AliBee1]

I am so glad that the party went ahead. I am sure that God wanted Sandy to be surrounded by all that love near his ending. God bless AliBee xx

[doglington]

Sounds like a perfect " acceptance " of reality. What lovely memories you will all have of closeness and support.

I know how hard it is but I also know how important these last hours are.

Big hug for you. You have done so well.

Love Jean xx

[Hiking13]

Thinking of you and so glad that the party went well and that your husband is surrounded by love it’s just what is needed at this time. Stay strong.

Love Sarahxxx

[Nanny857]

I'm so glad you were able to have the party and all the family were there and are still with you. I pray Sandy remains pain free and comfortable.

Always remember you and Sandy are never alone, God is always with you, he will never leave you.

God Bless. Nanny857xx

[AnneandChris]

Oh Joy

My heart goes out to you.

Love and blessings to you all

Anne xx

[racinlady]

I will hold you in my thoughts.

Hugs,

Pat

[rnpacu]

Glad to hear the party went well. You have done a great job taking care of your husband . Just continue to tell him you love him and let him know that you will be ok. 🙏prayers are with you at this time.

Xxol

Maria Elena

[Katiebow]

This sounds very much like our time as a family with Ben on his final days, I treasure that memory as the love in the air was very palpable, close family, grandchildren, my sons dog all milling around until we gathered around his bed as he took his final breath. I know he could feel the love and died a happy man and was ready to be free of this dreadful disease. Hoping the same happens in your family too.

Sending love and hugs

Kate xxx

[Marilyn_cbd12]

Yes, for every thing there is a season...

Marilyn

[Railfan]

I'm just reading this. I am glad you went through with the party. The closeness and support of friends and family sounded wonderful. May the next few days and weeks continue to be filled with love and support as Sandy concludes his part of the battle.

Tony

[SewBears]

Bittersweet and very well worded! Lots of love all around including this site. ❤️ Xoxo ❤️