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UTI and suspected chest infections again two plus months

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Just wondering if anyone else has gone through this.

My guy is now had a uti and chest infection since January 15 and is now on his 4th different antibiotic,He is now on day 4 of the newest antibiotic and he really is not improving,just wondering where we are heading. Had a talk with him because I really need to know he knows that this could go sideways and if it does,what does he want to do,of course he made a hand gun and pull the trigger of course I told I couldn't do that because I would go to jail 😕

This roller coaster from he'll has to end but the ending is terrifying.

He has bounce back so many times,it watching and waiting and trying to make good decision.

Dee

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Dearest Dee, your guy has really been put through (what l call) The Grinder. And you have been at his side for this whirlwind ride with this horrid disease... Life just isn't fair ... is it. Please know that if we could be there for you & hold your hand & bring you a cup of tea... we would be there with you both... Sending Hugs of Support... Granni B

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Kevin_1

Hi Dee

This must be so miserable for you both.

Is it time to talk about stopping the intravenous antibiotics? Does he want that? End of life doctors are usually very good at advising on this. You don't have to make the decission alone.

Thinking of you both.

Warmly

Kevin

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Marie_14

Dee this is very like what happened to my husband. Including what he wanted to happen and your reply to him.

Sadly he didn't recover. Sadly for me that is. For him I think he had had enough.

I will say a prayer for you both. I hope you get strength no matter what happens.

We are here for you no matter what. Just remember that? Make sure you tell him you love him. Also make sure he knows he can go. Tell him you will be alright. I hope you have family close by? Remember no two people are alike and he could shock you yet.

Hugs to you.

Marie x x

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SmurfetteVeritas

I have similarities to this in that i have been ill since November last year. When I saw consultant, apparently I’m constantly aspirating without realising, have lost weight, lost apetite, and high risk of infection. Only solution for me is PET feeding to supply nutrition without aspiration. This may not be case for you, I hope. Go back to dr and see what they do. Once sorted, I’m told I can socialise again. All the best for future.

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raincitygirl

Hi Dee,

So sorry for your poor hubby :-(. 8 weeks!! That's a long time for a UTI. Is he still at home? Ate you getting enough care,?

You must feel so wrung out 😔

XXX

Anne G

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Yvonneandgeorge

Dee thinking of you at the horrible time, brings back loads of memories, Yvonne xxxx

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dollydott

Dear Dee

I'm so sorry for what your guy is going through it must be so distressing for him and worrying for you.

Sending love to you both

Lynda xx

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AJK2001

So sorry to hear this Dee, you must both be exhausted.

Thinking of you both. xxx

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Kaylewis

Mum had these problems Jan to April last year, got through nine bottles of antibiotics one after the other for uti and chest infections, then was ok till sept, then another nasty round, sadly died peacefully just befor Christmas when her swollow stopped working.

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