So very sorry Dottie. It is as they say, we never know the day or the time? My Granddaughter had a death in her family just over a week ago. Her Mum's cousin went to take a cup of tea to her own Mum before going to work, and found her dead in bed!
Needless to say they were and are so shocked as she wasn't ill. Well not that they knew. She was 66 which isn't old these days. A nice way for her to go but not nice for the family. So another funeral in the family. I am not keen on going but must as I knew her for a very long time. Also I want to be there for my Granddaughter.
As for the unexpected death in your daughter in law to be's family that is so very sad too. A young man with his whole life ahead of him. No wonder you needed a drink. Very sad for all of you. God bless and may he rest in peace.
I know what you mean about not wanting to visit your husband. Will you tell him? Will he understand? Will it upset him too much? What a nightmare for you.
So sorry for all of you. The pain of those close to you is almost worse to bear than your own. I have been there too may times. It is very real. Prayers for strength and peace for you the families of the young man.
Oh DottieLottie,. Totally understand where you are coming from. To see a young man taken in his prime and your husband lying there, with no useful life left. You sometimes wonder who is rolling the dice. I often felt quite jealous when I heard of a death, especially if it was someone younger than Steve.
This isn't you being a bad person, just someone who is very very tired. I do hope that this doesn't ruin your son and his partners plan for too long. Life has to go on, as they say.
Hope the wine went down well, today, pick yourself up and go and give your husband a big hug.
What a shock for you all, especially when coping with the evils of PSP, it's no wonder you didn't feel like visiting him. Life is full of surprises, unfortunately not always good ones.
Sending lots of love and support, no wonder you resorted to the wine.
Oh how very tragic. So YOUNG. I can't really imagine the devastation. My dear kind beautiful mother died at 34 of cancer which was misdiagnosed at first and her young death became not something that happened to me (I was 16 at the time,) but it became a part of who I am and will always be. My only child is 23. Your son's lady and her family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry.
So sorry life is so precious and when you hear something like that you realise life is too short to waste an minute think this horrible illness has made me realise that x
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all the families impacted by this. It is heartbreaking to lose someone who has barely begun to live life. We have been in those shoes. They are ugly shoes, painful, and they can’t be taken off. No one wants them. I will hug my children a little closer- a little longer- the next time I see them. Hugs to you also
To lose someone so young and in such tragic circumstances is hard to take in. My thoughts and prayers for all who are grieving. Hope you got to give your husband a big hug. Lots of love Nanny857xx
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