CBD life After Death

[cjp1058]

Hey, it's been a while since I posted on here, my sister passed away in Octber of last year with CBD. Been a very difficult time, i think of her everyday! I miss the things we did together and just miss her! I try to think of the good times we had. I hope everyone on here is doing good, Thaks for listening!

[Kevin_1]

Hi cjp

Welcome back.

I'm sorry to hear of your sister's passing.

Loosing her must be hard.

I'm sorry.

Wishing you the best

Warmly

Kevin

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Losing a loved one leaves a big gapping hole in our hearts & our daily lives as you already know. Remembering your good times together is excellant... and crying when you feel like it is okedoky. Take good care of yourself... (l find that exercising, writing, & watching comedies helps me through the rough days.) Sending hugs... Granni B

[HilsandR]

Hi cjp,

There are no easy answers to coping with grief and we all do it in the way that works for us. GranniB's post explains well what works for her.

For me, my darling late husband is rattling around in my head 24/7 - he died 10th October 2018. I chat to him all the time, sometimes in my head, other times to his photo. I tell him what I am doing, where I am going, I tell him to join me if he wants to. Sometimes memories of our life together are healing, other times they make me so sad and I cry bucket loads. I've just had a week away in a place that was very special to us and I found it extremely hard. That said, I faced it head on and survived so in my mind it was good therapy especially as I will always want to return to that place.

You feel the loss because you loved your sister so much. I don't have a faith so I can't say that we will meet our loved ones again but what I do know is that what I had with my husband makes me one very lucky lady and for that I will be eternally grateful. It's very hard sometimes to think that life will get better but there is still a lot of joy to be had if we allow it back into our lives - I know my husband would be glad that I can smile and laugh again and I am sure your sister would be, too. I don't know whether any of this will help, the grief journey is a very personal one for us all, but just my thoughts on what's working for me.

Take care and very best wishes,

HilsandR

[Spiralsparkle]

Sending you massive hugs xxxx

[AJK2001]

My brother died 14 years ago and I still miss him, I have kept in touch with a few of his friends and recently my husband and I met up with one of them and we had such a good time, it was so nice to talk to someone who knew Rich and he told me stories I didn't know. It bought back the fun loving person with the wicked sense of humour rather than the invalid he became.

I hope you have someone who can help you capture your sister as you best remember her.

Thinking of you. xxx

[NHGrace]

My mom died last October. At first I was relieved that it was over as she was very worried about becoming bedridden (she ended up dying in her sleep when she could still swallow solids and laugh), but when that left me I was just sad. It took a while to remember her as she was pre-psp, but I’ll take the sadness over her suffering anymore. And I’m just glad I had her as a mom for as long as I did, which is more than some people can say. I suspect you feel the same about the sister life gave you. I’m sorry she was taken away too soon. Peace