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And I so badly need a huge group hug

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Yvonneandgeorge

Debbie I wish we could all give you a big hug, how are you coping? If you would like to meet up, I could meet you, if I can do anything for you just ask. A big hug from me coming you way xxxx❤️❤️❤️❤️💕

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NannaB

Sending you a great big hug

❤ 💐 🍷

XxxX

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Rowan8831

So sorry Debbie - I have been wondering how you are feeling. A big hug xx

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Christine47

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal." Hugs to you that you may find peace. Christine

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Patriciapmr

Debbie I've been thinking of you lots and lots, sending you an enormous big cuddly hug, I'm thinking of you.....

Lots of love....Pat xx

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Nanny857

I'm sending you lots and lots of big hugs, just sorry I'm not there to put my arms around you. Thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers. 😚😚

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DoreenC

Lots of big hugs from me too xxxx

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Wgrape

You fought a brave fight! Heartfelt gratitude for all you have shared. Sincere hope you feel all the love and concern sent your way!

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abirke

((HUGSHUGSHUGSHUGS))*********((HhUgSs)) ((hHuUgGsS)) ((HUGSHUGSHUGS))

Sending you bunches of hugs and hugs inside of hugs....How are things getting a long?

AVB

Iv'e been thinking about you darlin'

(((((HUGS))))

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easterncedar

Warm hugs, tea with honey. Sending all the comfort possible, ec

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Julieandrog

Hi Deb

Been thinking about you. Start to look after yourself now, I always say that I am grieving whilst Rog is alive but who am I kidding! The grief must be brutal. Let us know how his send off goes.

Much live

Julie

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Noella21

I have been wondering how you are coping. It is so sad to loose someone after having cared for them so long that your whole life is centered around them . Add me to the group hug. You will find yourself in time. You have added to all our lives through this site. Thanks for sharing.

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Bianca

A big hug coming your way. ♥️

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Katiebow

A big massive hug from me Debbie, you have been left with a huge hole in your life that was unexpected, I'm sure that must make it feel even worse. Take good care of yourself and I think only time will heal and the pain will lessen.

Love and hugs

Kate xxxx

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D0ttieL0ttie

HUG HUG HUG HUG AND MORE HUGS xxxxxxxx

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Satt2015

Darling Debbie

I'll join in the hug and I'm sending you lots of love and extra hugs through this heartbreaking time for you ❤ x

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BindiLeech

Hi there Debbie....... I am so sorry for you at present and therefore sending you lots of 🤗 and kisses. Actually at present we are in Zimbabwe at present as my brother died on New Years Eve - really sad but it is very nice having a family catch up. Thinking of you xxxxxx😍😍😍😍

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SuzeW

Sending big hugs & best wishes to you. X

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doglington

Big hug from me, Debbie. We're still here for you !

lots of love, Jean xx

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Heady

Joining in group hug, 'cause I need it as well.

Lots of love

Anne

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Marie_14 in reply to Heady

Anne of course you do! I am glad you are still there and you have posted a few times which has been really kind of you, but hopefully helpful for you too? We are still here for you and everyone else who is hurting. You were always there for everyone so we would all want to be here for you. You might be able to help us one day too! Just as you have done everyday since I joined, or so it seems. Big hugs and much love to you too. Tim the same to you and to everyone else who has been so kind to all of us. You need some kindness now so don't be afraid to say so? Big hug!

Marie x

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jillannf6 in reply to Marie_14

i agree with u all

lol jill

xxxxx

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Debbieann in reply to Heady

You must need it as much as me

Lots of love

Debbie xxxx

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vlh4444 in reply to Heady

xox 🌸💐

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Dizz58

Joining in and sending love and thoughts to everyone who's lost a loved one recently. Xxxxxxxxxxx

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Marie_14

My dear Debbie, consider yourself hugged over and over. Of course you are sad, how could you not be? You have lost the man you loved so much. I am dreading where you are right now as I don't think I will cope. I certainly feel I have really bad days now. I know you felt that way at times. I felt you were my soul mate in many ways as you were not afraid to say you were struggling when your beloved was there with you.

Debbie if he loved you half as much as you loved him he would not want you to cry alone. We are all here for you still. Anytime you want to tell us you are feeling down and need help we are here. The same goes for everyone who has lost loved ones. Some people I don't know but some of the people I am fondest of have lost loved ones through the Xmas period. I include you in that group Debbie. Please take care of yourself sweetheart. Lots of love and hugs to you and to everyone else who is grieving.

Marie x

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Escada29

Big hug from me x

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jillannf6 in reply to Escada29

and me too

lol jill

xxxxxx

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ketchupman

Sending you a big bear hug. I lost my bride 6 months ago today and still feel the loss like it happened just yesterday. I no longer have those crying-all-day spells, but they hit me from out of the blue with the least little thing at times. For some reason I tend to visualize those finals days, which deeply sadden me, but then I force myself to think of happier times, before PSP. And then I don't feel so sad.

Stay strong darling.

Ketchupman

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doglington in reply to ketchupman

Hug for you, Ketchupman. Good to hear from you. Can't believe its 6 months. Focus on earlier memories.

love, Jean x

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MaddyS

Big hug coming your way right now . Love maddy xx

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pzagy

Can you feel it?????? It's a big hug from Toronto with a few prayers for you

Paola

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daddyt

Sending a big hug from across the pond XXXXX

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cabbagecottage

Can you feel my long arms reaching out to you , xx

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gypsywoman1947

Hugh hugs , and prayers for you . You'll be ok, one day at a time, and know your loved one is in a far better place .xx

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vlh4444

Dear Debbie I am thinking of you. It does get just a tiny bit easier as time passes but I don't suppose the pain really ever goes away. I am in the middle of my trip to Devon and Cornwall to visit family and old friends. It is nice to catch up after many months of not being able to travel, but it feels very strange to be doing it alone.

Love

Vicki xoxo

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Debbieann in reply to vlh4444

I can imagine, so difficult to do things alone, that you would have done or liked to do as a couple, next hurdle after the funeral, and scared of feeling lonely xx

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Cuttercat

I am sending you one and please send me one in return.

My heart is heavy and the days are heartwrenching.

Cuttercat

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Debbieann in reply to Cuttercat

Hug returned xxxx

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Teeker

To Debbie and everyone who lost loved ones I am sending loads and loads of hugs. I cannot say that I know what you have gone through and are still going through. But I know that one day I would be in your situation and would look forward to all the love and encouragement we give each other in this group.

I am a bit overwhelmed at the moment. My husband fell down the stairs on Friday and broke 4of his ribs. He is in hospital at the moment and is connected to a morphine pump and oxygen and having antibiotics to help him to breath easier. I can see changes in him and am mentally preparing myself. He has been in terrible pain for the past 48 hours but the morphine seems to be helping him.

Today when I visited him, he was confused and did not know where he was, and was becoming quite anxious but when of explained where and why he was in hospital, he suddenly said oh yes I remember now but still looked confused.

I am trying to be calm and regularly reassure him that I will always be here for him. We have been married nearly 47years (will be in April). I am taking one day at a time. I need a group hug too and will let you all know how things are progressing. Much love and hugs. Teeker😕💆🌹

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psplife

Hi Debbieann

Some days are just darn difficult! I feel your sadness and pain. Some people just trigger those tears, those emotions. It's like I am out of control and it's been 5 months since my guy Les passed. I read an article about letting the emotions, the tears and the sadness take it's course. Just cry, cry and cry, but also begin to heal by taking care of yourself. We have to take are of ourselves. We have to find ourselves because we have been lost for a very long time. Sending you a huge hug.

Peace,

Nikkie

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