Having a pretty crap time at minute, never felt so low and struggling to snap out of it. Usually I can or should I say I have to got no choice 😀
I seem to have turned into the adult whilst my parents are the kids. Dads that fed up he can't make any decisions no motivation, mums just not there anymore cause of this shit psp all she does is cry (I do completely understand why) I'm trying my hardest to fight Chc all I want from them is to tell me what help they need, what would make their lives a little easier all I get is "I've no idea".
Deep down I think dads at the stage where he can't do any of it anymore and he's hoping someone will suggest putting mum into nursing home, just as long as it's not him that suggests it because that way it wasn't his choice. But I also won't beable to live with myself if it's my suggestion. Specialist nurse has said mums only survived this long because she's looked after so well at home. I'm sure going into a nursing home will kill her. Just don't know what to do