hello all, i know u cant know if its the end or not, as on many occassions it has looked that way, but this is the first time ever my dad has decided he doesnt want to get up anymore. hes been in bed for 5 days, doesnt want food or drinks, although we are managing to get some fluid in him, hes not talking just staring at us. pallative care hs now been arranged at home and we wer given the forms to write his wishes , which are no more hospital and he managed to say no to a peg ( much to my releif ).....but me mum just sit everyday with him and she asked me do i think this is it, well i dont know, but the not getting up is odd for him, so carers come, clean him and leave him in bed. just wondered if anyone else experienced this prior to death...so sorry to ask such a personal question xx
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