Had a big row today with some silly little jumped up jobs worth, from social services!!!
I need extra help with S! Let's face it folks, when you admit that, it's already six months too late! I telephoned the care agency , who are providing a sitter service, she laughed at me, saying they were totally full, though could provide someone to come and get S out of bed and shower him at 11.00am ish!!! a couple of mornings. Said this was no good, so phoned SS to see what to do! Stupid move I know!
This extremely unpleasant man, just took an instant dislike to me! My sister has spoken to him in the past and he said he was waiting for her to get back to him. They want to do another assessment on me. How many times do you have to be assessed before anybody believes you need help? I told him, I did not need assessing, just the name of a company that would be able to help me. Insisted that he would come and see me on Friday. So I said bring your bucket and mop to help me shower my husband, or don't come! The cheek of the guy, then said phone back when I wasn't upset!!! Will he still be in post in 10 years time or what?????
Sorry, but can someone tell me, how to be happy, cheerful when telling powers at be, that you can't cope and you need help?
So I am now left, with no help and nobody to turn to, what do I do?????????
Yes, I will report this guy at some stage, but for the time being, I need to conserve my energy, to get through the day and try and fight to get the help I need. But again, who do I turn to?
I am trying soooo hard to keep calm, accept things that are totally against my nature, but HOW do you deal with jumped up twits like this?
Lots of love