Not sure how to handle this problem. It was my day to attend the hospice today. Sitter was due and arrived half an hour after i left (she is his favourite carer) she stayed untill 30 mins before i was due home. So not long on his own. When she arrived he was in a state because the phone had rung and also someone had knocked on the front door he was scared that he had done it all wrong and didn't know if i would come home. Yet when i got home he was upset because he thought he had upset his sitter/carer.
not sure if it was because i was at the hospice or if he just getting over clingy. He seems to be ok when i go out for an hour or so every morning to go to work (private caring) as if i don't do enough at home but it is my sane time. I look after a 94 year old lady who is as bright as a button but body failing. Do you think it's because I'm to far away or is it because it's the hospice and it brings home his mortality. And how do i deal with it. G7ve it up for a quite life or carry on. Janexx