Thank you to all those who gave me advice and support for the email I sent to friends regarding Mum. I've had very interesting responses, mainly positive although a couple have taken offence but that's NOT my problem.
It was interesting the relief that was relayed back to me from friends who explained they were finding it progressively difficult to "know what to say and ask" so they were more than happy to receive the email. Several have already said they're sending letters and photos for Mum and that they're delighted to be able to do something.
Most people have told me how brave I have been to say what I need for a change (I'm not know for asking for help) so that was reassuring.
Thank you again for all your wonderful support, we'll see what happens next but hopefully I won't have to regurgitate the solid details of Mums illness on daily basis. xx