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I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in April 2018. Had a prostatectomy 5 weeks ago. Started Cilais and erections are few and not so firm. How do I focus on my sexual health, mind and spirit?

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Tall_Allen

It is very early for recovery of potency, but not too early start penile rehab (ED meds, pump, trimix) if you have not already.

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koiboi

Can't sugar cost it Paul but it's a tough road and it varies 4 everyone.

Definitely start penile rehab asap! U gotta keep any nerves u may still have alive.. keep the blood flowing!! Pumps, pills, genital massage... anything like that wil help. I have an awesome husband but honestly alot of my "rehab" I did on my own. It'll take time and patience. It's definitely hands on!!!! Good luck, btw my name is Allan. Surgery was 7.5 years ago and things r better... way better

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jimreilly

Know that five weeks, as sid below, is very early, and if you are already getting some kind of erections that are likely to get quite a bit better in the next few months. Some people say there's improvement for up to a year and a half (was true for me). Just how much recovery each person has varies a lot, but you've got a good start.

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SpenceNYC

While you are doing penile rehab you may be surprised, as I was, that you can have the sensation of orgasm by experimenting.

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