I am 9 weeks out from surgery. I have recovered better than most. My first instinct was not to treat, I was a Gleason 7 2- 4+3, 2-3+4. Even after a good recovery, erections returned to about 90%, no leakage I feel I made the wrong choice. It will never be the same. My partner has been great, good support. However, if you want a real sex life, it is pretty much over. What good is an erection that does nothing in the end. I would rather have took my chances for a few years of normal than the rest if my life of this. And I will not be going back for ant follow ups. First instinct is always right.