This is my first post here so introductions first. I was diagnosed Feb 18 and underwent RRP Mar 18, Gleason 3+4 and cancer contained within prostate and the margins were clear. Catheter removed after 10 days and some incontinence which is mostly gone now but is more prevelant later in the day or if I drink alcohol. I’m coming up for 10 weeks post op this week but so far no erection. I have been taking Cialis 5mg daily but nothing, my head is wanting sex but my body is letting me down. I’m in a long term relationship and he’s very understanding, we’re both versatile but I miss being able to get erect. I have lost a bit of length from the surgery but until I have an erection then I won’t know exactly how much.
I have had flaccid and of course dry orgasms, but it’s just not the same, although the intensity of the orgasm is even more intense than it was pre operative.
My question, and I know we’re all different, is how long post operatively does it commonly take to regain erections?