healers like kind dogs ......are they fighters? would u judge them if they dominated by junk yard mean dogs? or not trained how to fight ?
it not their nature.....my adopted mother was the kindest woman in the world...........her husband walked all over her....today they victimize the victimm...u allowed z ..........
wrong- her husband was an ass................he is the bully ............the kind people who get taken advantage of .............are NOT the problem................its the people who violate the gentle people..........................the gentle people like the carol kings of this world
are not wrong.....theyh want to live in peace......
no....................im protective of the gntel people.................the bullies..........are the problem.....lets stop victimizing the victim.............leave the gentle people alone.......o should have been a street cop......................its the gangs or the harsh people that are the problem...............NOT the kind people.......
Hi. I can only respond from experience. A person who is selfless and good needs to set boundaries to protect their heart. It's very hard to live in this crazy world when you have a good heart bc people can take advantage. I learned this the hard way. I am a very kind, warm, compassionate person with a very good heart and I will never surround myself with people who will treat me poorly bc I understand I need to protect what's mine and my precious heart. Another point I want to make is I wrote precious because I know who I am and I will never allow anyone to treat me poorly. Loving yourself works that way.
Sunni❤
I'd like to put this the other way round. There's everything right with kind people. Aggression's easy. You can let fly at someone else in a temper very easily. Much harder to stay kind when there's a situation that has made you become angry.I guess there are good dogs and bad dogs too. Some learn to be aggressive having been wrongly taught that this is what's expected of them. Those dogs (and people of the same character) have few friends and dominate through fear.
I love those people and dogs who have friendly personalities and who contribute to the well-being of all. Have you ever closely watched a working dog Brig57? I love the way they are so eager to go to work and to please. Tails wag excitedly and they want to excel, usually for some kindness and a small squeaky ball as a reward.
It's in some humans to do the same, and we have to foster those and the way they live their lives.
I've just listened to a woman who was interviewed after the death of her daughter who had died much too soon, who said she'd been amazed by the love and kindness of so many who had helped through this tough time for her remaining family, and she said she believed that 'most people just want to be kind and to help others'. And that there 'aren't that many bad people in the world really'.
I believe we shouldn't be influenced by any apparent advantage there is in being aggressive. And that's because there isn't a real advantage. The advantage of being kind is that it spreads like a warm glow from your heart, and that's a true blessing and advantage.
Take care Brig57 and have a good day.
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thanks for the help...i only have a sense of things....always nice when people help me translate ro express it more clearly..............thanks very much.......
very graterfull
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