Coping with outside pressures and anxiety
I write often in this post for support and understanding
I find that when I deal with challenges I seem to become very anxious and mentally tired
I took a respite from Ramadan today and I will start again tomorrow
I see that I am trying to obtain financial compensation concerning the tenants deposit concerning damage and neglect to my property
I seem to have neglected my career aspirations even though I would like to work in Wills and Probate one day
I wonder if anyone has anything to say
It was probably a good thing to take a short break from your fast today, especially if you are feeling tired and anxious.
There are times when the best charity you can do is for yourself.
It is tough to go for a full month not eating or drinking during daylight, and you are not well, not a good combination, and allowed for in the teachings.
Treat yourself gently, especially in this time of pandemic.
Cheers, Midori
Good evening
I hope you are well
How are you
I hope you will be able to sort out your home once the Lock Down restrictions are reduced.
I have started fasting again and I try to do what I can
I hope you continue to keep safe and well
Question, Does your practice of Ramadan help or hinder you mental and physical state?
Thank you for reply
The Ramadan fasting is prescribed ad being necessary but due to the long hours I observe a few days and take a days rest and recommence
Fasting does impact on the mental and physical wellbeing and this is why I took a days respite to start again tomorrow
I also have anxiety issues which impact on my ability to pass the Wills and Probate Exam which I have been trying for three years and now I find myself fighting for my own letting agent to listen to my concerns as a result of damage and neglect caused to my property
I hope you are safe and well
Thank you for replying to my posts
Keep going. The letting agent has a legal obligation to return enough of the deposit to cover the damage.
Thank you for your reply
I am a legal graduate even though I passed twenty years ago plus I have previously managed a property portfolio based in Derby and now I find myself having to justify the damage and neglect caused by the former tenants
I have been negotiating since Monday and unless we can reach an agreeable resolution I will take the matter to the Tenancy Dispute Adjudicator
I hope you are keeping well
Good for you. I worked in criminal law many years ago. I'm well thank you.
Thank you for reply
Could you please explain what you mean by good for you
I mean well done for not giving up and for planning to go to the Adjudicator if you don't get anywhere with the agent.
I thank you for your reply
I think 🤔 what I can’t seem to understand is why the agent seems to marginalise what I have to say despite justification I can add
Thank you for reply and I will keep on trying
Can you provide photographic evidence of the damage or invite the agent to carry out an inspection? Socially distanced of course!
Thanks for reply
I have an Inventory and the Check in Report and Check out Report
I have all the reports and photographic evidence concerning the the condition of the property as a result of the tenants neglect and damage caused to the interior as well as house hold appliances
I have submitted yet again my claims and if the tenants disagree I have asked for the Deposit to be refered to the Independent Adjudicator
The property was newly decorated and I had new white goods installed at the start of the Tenancy
The manager is stating I should have done a Professional clean but I am disputing this given the newly decorated state of the flat when the tenants first moved in
Thanks for your suggestions
It means about your resilience for taking the matter to adjudicator if unsolved, fasting is the best thing a human being can do
Take care
Thank you
It is always a question if faith to submit to the will of God
This is what our relain teaches us
We are also taught to be patient in adversity