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The dangers and surprises of fuzzy thinking

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I'm going to put all the blame on prednisolone and not on senile behaviour. Have you ever purchased something at the end of a season sale and then forgotten about it completely, not even remembering when or how you purchased it?

I'm now getting used to opening cupboards and finding unexpected items. A couple of months ago I took out a summer jacket and found another unknown jacket beside it. My husband bought me a lovely black handbag as I hadn't got one: but back at home, what a surprise! There were two black handbags waiting to be used. On Christmas day I took out my smart padded winter coat. But what was underneath? A brand new beige padded jacket with lots of sale tickets on it. The final surprise was on taking out my favourite shoes last week, only to find not one, but two brand new identical pairs wrapped in tissue paper.

Now I know it wasn't Father Christmas , so it must have been pred. These 'discovery'' events have been really amusing and I know I will find a use for all these objects eventually. But I really would like my brain back again.

Wishing you a clear-minded new year with no confusion.

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Just give him a list of what you have found - he won't forget ...

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

Your reply really made me laugh. Do you think that Father Christmas is also suffering from a pred fuzzy experience?

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

Nah - that's all the glasses of whisky, brandy, sherry waiting on him ...

I thought Iโ€™d had all my deliveries for Christmas โ€” but theyโ€™re still coming, two new pairs of shoes and counting... but is it the pred? I donโ€™t know, I think Father Christmas brought me the wrong stuff ....

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply tobraininjurythepits

It happens!

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply tobraininjurythepits

Like you, I'm just hoping that there won't be any more surprises.

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Blearyeyed

Happens to me all the time , not from Steroids but I have had it increase with the brain fog symptoms to do with GCA but already had brain fog from my other illnesses for years .

I have to keep a file with receipts ( and have had to since before I was 40 , so not an age thing for any of us ๐Ÿ˜‹) I have to look in it now when I think ," I must get a new one of these" , or , "Ooh , that would be useful I'll buy one " , because I may well have already done the same before and forgotten about it.

Grandma ( as my youngest daughter is affectionately known ) proved my skill of forgotten purchases yet again at Christmas , as she pulled a Skipping rope with Counter from her stocking and said , " Ooh , this will look lovely in my collection !" Turns out she now has three which I have managed to buy and put in her stocking three years running!!!

I also forgot I had ordered myself a new bow , and bought one before Christmas , the second arrived on Saturday. So I'm now having to make sure I print off my Amazon receipts and add them in my check box as well.

Not 50 yet , so you have an excuse other than age , your just like me .

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Constance13โ€ข in reply toBlearyeyed

Not that you'll think of checking your box!!

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Blearyeyedโ€ข in reply toConstance13

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Oh , no I have too , I know from experience now , especially after the cupboard full of pickled onions.

And buying not one , but four , black t-shirts and still thinking I only had my old bleachy one to put on!!

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MhairiP

No, I must confess that I haven't purchased things that I've forgotten (or at least that I've discovered!), but...

Today I couldn't figure out why my car door wouldn't lock - I thought perhaps the battery was flat in my remote car key. Then eventually I figured out what was wrong... I had got out of the car and left the engine running. And I haven't been on pred for about 8 months now - so we can't blame everything on pred! ๐Ÿคฃ

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toMhairiP

It's a great pity when we can't find something/someone to blame it on!

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SheffieldJane

Are you rehearsing before you tell your OH? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Seriously, I have woken after a very broken night, knowing that I have done some on-line shopping and hardly daring to look.

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toSheffieldJane

I've got into the habit of telling OH so he won't be surprised if I do something worse in the future!

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Yellowbluebell

I love this and couldnt stop the giggles Do you think the pred has turned you into a phantom shop lifter!! Maybe thats how you got it all๐Ÿคช. At least they are all things you wanted or will use. You might need to take a "carer" shopping with you in future.xx

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

I never thought of that! But a carer wouldn't be of any use. They may not have the same taste in clothes as me and might interfere with my selection!!

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

That is true. So you will have to keep solo shopping!! Pred as mitigation for shop lifting is a new one on me but always worth trying๐Ÿค”YBB

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

I'd watch out - someone will ask you to represent them ...

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

Might dip out of that one. I am constantly worried Blearyeyed is going to do something i may need to represent her for!!

I think my weirdest night time purchase was a eukele.....i can't read music and have arthritic hands.

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply to

This is really amusing. I will think of you and your purchase when I next explore my cupboard!

โ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

I might be cleaning windows....

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Visbyโ€ข in reply to

This did make me giggle๐Ÿ˜€

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to

For christs sake!! What on earth are you you going to do with that?

โ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

Learn to play by ear..... One day....

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Kaaswinkel72

Who else would we feel safe to tell those stories too...it is just wonderful to be able to share and give and recieve the support we all need, for us to keep on smiling....๐Ÿ˜‰

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Jackoh

Yes itโ€™s food shopping I often double up on - thinking I must remember to order so and so when I had trouble remembering it one of the previous weeks. I now have 3 containers of turmeric I noticed when I put the final one away!!

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powerwalk

Oh that's so funny!!!!

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pball

This is so cute. I call myself pred head! This for me has been going on for 4 years since I started the ugly drug.

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply topball

Nothing ugly about something that gives people their life back and prevents them losing their sight...

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

Despite my pred brain, my best friend is pred.

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bunnymom

I think what I miss most is having my brain work right. I find things I bought I can't remember and give away things I still need.

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply tobunnymom

Well, at least you haven't come to the stage of putting saucepans in the fridge or milk in the oven - though to be honest, in the case of me and OH, it was momentary. I hope not an indication of the future!!

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

My favourite pred brain activity is putting milk in the oven. OH automatically looks there now!!

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

A carton of milk wouldn't stand up in my oven!!!

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

I usually have the shelf low in mine so the milk sits there perfectly!! Ideal place almost.

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

The shelf is at the low position in mine - but it is a very small oven! Just as well I no longer need to cook a turkey ...

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

I must admit i sometimes worry that i have bought too big a Turkey for the oven!! As i cook for 7 of us and everyone likes cold Turkey sandwiches etc afterwards we do get the biggest turkey i can find. Usually about 10kilo!!

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

That would provide turkey sannies for us for a year ...

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply toPMRpro

๐Ÿคช๐Ÿคฃ

Yellowbluebell profile image
Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply tobunnymom

I forget the name of things in everyday use and end up trying to describe something like a saucepan or even items of clothing.

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

This is the reason I don't like talking to a rheumy. Not only is my speech slower but the demand to find immediate vocabulary is well nigh impossible. "So you were a teacher" he says. "What did you teach?" Well, do you think I could summon up "teaching dyslexics"? No. So I had to use the ploy I use with my OH. So my conversation went into a meandering "You know when students have difficulty recognising writing....?" By this time my OH would have known what I was talking about. But this specialist wasn't used to this method. It all got hugely embarrassing but fortunately we both saw the funny side,

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

My OH is quite good at guessing what word i want but like you say some people are not used to the drama we go through to get the right word๐Ÿคช

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sandydameโ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

This is what I experience but haven't the word just now to tell you about it.

Just now you know where when your clothes are dirty you get them clean but I couldn't get the job done because I forgot to buy well I forgot to buy that stuff in the plastic bottle that you put in that takes out stains. Anyway a best friend called from long distance we had a great talk and I forgot all about what I had to do. But I never forget my pred. I live near the coast but the fog is always in my head. I agree with many here that I am thankful for pred even if it does screw up my head. Have fun today it helps.

43tripandskip profile image
43tripandskipโ€ข in reply tosandydame

It's sometimes a good idea to write notes to remind yourself what you want to do. But what if you can't remember where you left the note!!?

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to43tripandskip

Oh dont please!! I never was good at remembering where i put the list but always knew what was on it . Nowadays i struggle to remember the word let alone put it on a list and as for knowing where the list went , well theres no hope!! Strange thing is i dont forget words when i am in court?!!!

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Grammy80

Wow...you all have an uncanny way of making me feel normal. Love it~! I've just tucked my pride in my back pocket ~! That post and the replies brought smile after smile to my face.

Along with evrything you have mentioned...I make calls to reschedule appointments I have already rescheduled and have no recollection of. In the early onset of GCA I asked the Doctors if my memory would come back...I was keenly aware it had left. I wondered if there was permanent damage due to lack of oxygen or blood supply in the arteries in my 'skull'~!

I've been tapering...am down to 24mg prednisolone and Actemera.....but that thing called a memory......is just a faint memory.....and a darn good cop-out. I just laugh anymore...I am all done being embarassed.

Hanging with you folks makes me see how good life can be~!!!

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43tripandskipโ€ข in reply toGrammy80

You're right: all we can do at present is laugh about it.

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Plantmad

This is all so reassuring. I was beginning to worry that I was losing it - actually I โ€˜loseโ€™ quite a lot of things. I once drove home at night with only side lights. Thought there was something wrong with the car only to discover when I arrived home that I just hadnโ€™t turned the switch twice. This really upset me and of course was dangerous. It never occurred to me that it could be Pred. Iโ€™m very careful when I drive in the dark now.

On a lighter note how many times have you trundled up and down supermarket aisles looking for something, then eventually asked someone and find you are stood in front of it!

โ€ข in reply toPlantmad

Hundreds... Even had my hand on the shelf. I once forgot to buy loo roll 7 times. I kept going back twice a day. That was pre pred I think so blaming pmr.

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to

OH would have set up some kind of panic shop if i had forgotten the loo roll that many times!!

โ€ข in reply toYellowbluebell

Each shop was a panic shop.

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Yellowbluebellโ€ข in reply to

๐Ÿคช

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toPlantmad

I was looking for gluehbags (to make mulled wine) the other week. I KNEW they were by all the other t-bags - could I see them. They were in a separate stand next to them, 2 feet from me!

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Constance13โ€ข in reply toPMRpro

There are always loads of assistants in our local supermarkets so I just ask - then they take you to the necessary isle. It helps being old and decrepit!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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PMRproAmbassadorโ€ข in reply toConstance13

There was an assistant restocking the shelf and I saw them as I asked! We both laughed. My excuse is she was kneeling in front of them.

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