Sorry all, I can see why I hit a nerve. If you thought I was saying a few times round the block will cure all those with PMR, try reading it again. This time where I've written PolyM read Fibromyalgia, it may make you feel less misunderstood.
Note to self - No matter how bright you think you are at 6am, it's your pm steroids talking and your interlect is not the rapier sharp tool you think it is. Read it after 9am then send.