Hi everyone, would really love some advice since the last posts I put up ended up with some fantastic pointers about the difficult situation I was in.
Long story short, I'm about to graduate from university in just over a month, and am keeping an eye on job applications, but I've been incredibly ill since April (although the sickness has gone, the physical pain and probable cause still exists). I don't know whether it's even worth doing anything in terms of looking for jobs, when I feel like I'll be turned down not only for the fact that my illness means I'm graduating later than the usual student, but because I'm still in the process of having scans and working out what's wrong with me.
I'm currently at home to finish off a few university assessments, and only just found out on Monday that the scan I had last week suggests that I've got problems with my kidneys and that it might be the cause of the constant pain in my back and side. (Getting another scan in about a month to find out more and determine whether I need surgery or not.)
My dad has recently started asking when I'm going to get a job - and believe me, I would if I could - but I'm really worried that if I do start a job right now that it'll only aggravate my pain and stress (not to mention the fact that I still have assessments to finish).
What would be the best course of action? I don't know what else to do and I'm just sitting at home and heading to doctors and hospitals and writing essays, and while I want to get a start on my career and make some income, I physically don't think I'm capable of it right now. Everything's just so up in the air.
Are there any options to help bridge the situation? Because I don't want to end up getting into further debt, and I don't want to be a burden to my parents. I legit know barely anything about benefits or anything that can be done to make the situation less terrifying.
I just want to get better and not end up completely stressed out by family pressures and money worries.
Thanks in advance for any advice!