I have had so many emails "Dont forget Your Mum on Mothers Day" these companies disgust me they dont think about the pain and suffering many of us have suffered and are suffering! No one who has cared or cares for their Mother are going to Forget them today or any other day! My Mum is in my thoughts 24/7, I am constanly thinking "would Mum approve,would Mum think Im doing the right thing? Or Mum would like this!" No I have never been a Mothers boy ,if anything i was probably the bane of my Mothers life all the problems i caused as a child and young adult. I never seeked my Mothers approval when she was alive but always considered what she would think! I am not grieving my Mothers demise,I am angry at the cause and with the hospital trust who lied to the Coroner (Coroners should in my opinion have sufficient medical knowledge to be able to question Drs who lie) I will not let my anger ruin what life i have left,so am going forward as best i can.
I know many will be missing a loved one and today many will be more susceptible to the sadness of losing their Mum depression and loss seem to go hand in hand sadly! But good can come out of it ! Live for Today think of Tomorrow ,be Happy get rid of your sadness and sorrow. I so wish i could take my own advice at times! Advice my Mother tried to get me to follow, "Sometimes you follow your heart and sometimes your brain takes over,have a happy medium and youl be all right" sorry if my post has upset anyone that is not my intention. I dont have anyone else I can share my thoughts with !