Hi everyone,
I have been very lucky in that after being diagnosed with stage 3C OC, I had surgery, 6 rounds of Carboplatin/ Paclitaxol and 2 years of Olaparib, I had 4.5 years NED.
It was a massive shock to have a recurrence.
My CA 125 went up from 23 to the late hundreds in just 11 weeks.
I had a bowel blockage before my last treatment in 2019 and it was terrifying.
I feel this may occur again as chemo now a four week wait. ( I’m also in quite a bit of discomfort and can barely eat ).
On top of all this, my husband has quite advanced Dementia and Type1 diabetes.
I was told yesterday by social services that I will still have to be his carer even through chemo.
I was struggling already as he can experience poor sleep patterns, occasionally aggressive and once violent. He also wanders down by the waters edge in the middle of the night.
We have been married for 45 years and he has been the most wonderful husband.
I asked for him to have respite at night times as I won’t be able to monitor him if I’m exhausted or become poorly.
I was told no. I can only have a morning call.
I’m desperate and feel like just giving up.
Any advice would be so welcome.
Denise