I wanted to let you know that after almost 5 years of fighting this awful disease, my wonderful mum has passed away.
Me and my family are absolutely devastated. She fought to the very end. It was a peaceful ending. my brother and I were holding each hand, repeating how much we loved her, and then she died.
It was a fast decline in the end. She has been feeling awful for a couple of months, and on Friday was admitted back with another bowel blockage. They put an NG tube in and suggested a stoma might be a solution. The decline hit fast after that and she passed a few hours later.
We are relieved for my mum she is not suffering anymore.
It’s a pain like no other and I can not see how I will move forward. It is all consuming. I will do, of course, but for now I morn the loss of my beautiful mum, who was taken from this world far too soon.
Rest in peace mum, you were the best mum ever and I’m so glad you were mine. I love you more than words, and will miss you so much xxxx
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I am so sorry to hear of her passing from this horrible disease. The grief of loosing a Mom reaches to the depths of your soul it is a loss like no other. Take heart that you were a wonderful Daughter with her every step of this journey. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
I am so very sorry to read your post. Your Mum is no longer suffering and you and your family were there at the end and all the way through this wretched disease.
But I am gutted that we have lost another member of this group too soon.
Sending lots of love to you, what a wonderful daughter, you were always fighting her corner. Take good care of yourself xx
I'm sorry for what you must be going through. I've thought a lot about what my last moments might be like and i have to say, they're almost exactly what you provided your mom. It must have been a very peaceful release for her. You and your brother did well.
Sorry sorry to here of the loss of your mum.I know that you will be going through difficult time with grief and heartache of her passing. I wish you and your family love and condolences. Take care Lynne x
So sorry for your loss. I don’t think we are ever ready even when know it’s coming. It’s lovely that you and your brother were there with her as she left this life and was taken to another. Sending love to you all xx
I am so sad for you and your family. I’m glad your mum died peacefully surrounded by love. Hold That lové close in your heart. You will go on because that is the nature of things. Your mum is at peace, you did all you could to support her. X
I am so sorry you have lost your precious Mum. Your support to her will have made such a difference. Now it is time for you to grieve and reflect on all you have done. Sending you our thoughts and a virtual hug. You have endured so much.
So sorry to hear of your loss. It seems impossible now, but you will get through this, and find a way to live again (I'm sure that's what your Mum would have wanted). Treasure all the many good memories that you have and take comfort in the fact that she is now free from pain. Sending gentle hugs to you and your family.
My heart goes out to you. The loss of a mum at whatever age, its the most painful loss. However, you will find a way to move forward and in time, beautiful memories of her will bring you the comfort you need. Sending you lots of love at this very sad timex
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure your mum was very comforted by all your love and care and I couldn’t imagine a better way to die than with my children holding my hands. May she rest in peace. And take care of yourself. You’ve been through so much. Xx
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely mum. From what you say about her she was very much loved and you were also a wonderful daughter. How lucky we are in this life to have known such love, the loss is great but we are gifted with memories. This is a dreadful disease and we have to try hard to live life as full as we can and your mum did that. Many blessings and my condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. xxxxxxxxxxx
I'm so very sorry to learn your sad news. I'm sure it was a comfort to your mother to have you and your family with her both during her illness and at the end. Blessings to all of you. --Lani
I am so sorry for you loss and the pain you and your family endured these past 5 years. I worry about my own daughter and the pain she will feel when I pass and I am not far from it now have been fighting 3 1/2 years. This cancer is so devastating to us all! So very sorry 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss. It grieves us all on here to lose another teal friend. Sending you and your family love and hugs at such a sad time for you all xx
I’m so sorry to hear this, I just joined this group yesterday. I too have been diagnosed with stage 3A HGSOC and I’m terrified of leaving my 2 daughters as they need their mum. Sending love to you and your family.
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