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My wonderful mum

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I wanted to let you know that after almost 5 years of fighting this awful disease, my wonderful mum has passed away.

Me and my family are absolutely devastated. She fought to the very end. It was a peaceful ending. my brother and I were holding each hand, repeating how much we loved her, and then she died.

It was a fast decline in the end. She has been feeling awful for a couple of months, and on Friday was admitted back with another bowel blockage. They put an NG tube in and suggested a stoma might be a solution. The decline hit fast after that and she passed a few hours later.

We are relieved for my mum she is not suffering anymore.

It’s a pain like no other and I can not see how I will move forward. It is all consuming. I will do, of course, but for now I morn the loss of my beautiful mum, who was taken from this world far too soon.

Rest in peace mum, you were the best mum ever and I’m so glad you were mine. I love you more than words, and will miss you so much xxxx

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Saintgermain

I am so sorry to hear of her passing from this horrible disease. The grief of loosing a Mom reaches to the depths of your soul it is a loss like no other. Take heart that you were a wonderful Daughter with her every step of this journey. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

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Lyndy

I am so very sorry to read your post. Your Mum is no longer suffering and you and your family were there at the end and all the way through this wretched disease.

But I am gutted that we have lost another member of this group too soon.

Sending lots of love to you, what a wonderful daughter, you were always fighting her corner. Take good care of yourself xx

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FlowerRose

I'm sorry for what you must be going through. I've thought a lot about what my last moments might be like and i have to say, they're almost exactly what you provided your mom. It must have been a very peaceful release for her. You and your brother did well.

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0462County

I am so sorry to hear about your mum. Sending you and your family all my love and hugs. Beth xx

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Lizzieanne

I am so sorry but so pleased you and your brother were with her, she knew she was loved. Sending love and condolences to you x

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Yorkiepudd

So sorry for your loss ❤️

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Mariej2021

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful mother Condolences to you and all the family xx

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Goodgirl98

I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to your family and you. Much love, Ramya

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Caleda4

So sorry to read about your mum,as obviously things moved so quickly. She will be at peace now. Sending condolences to you and your family.x

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BallyMacfan

Sorry to hear about the loss off your mumx Thank you for taking the time to share with us.Take care jaynex

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Lirene

Bless you and your mum and family. The Lord will look after her and all of you. Prayers and love Lx

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Bananasmoothie

Xxx

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Le-gra143

I am truly sorry for the pain and heartbreak you and yours are enduring at this moment in time

Thinking of you

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Gakaxy57

Sorry sorry to here of the loss of your mum.I know that you will be going through difficult time with grief and heartache of her passing. I wish you and your family love and condolences. Take care Lynne x

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ruthg55

So sorry to hear about your Mum, but such a blessing that you and your brother were with her at the end. Take care xx

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Willowsmum51

So sorry for your loss. I don’t think we are ever ready even when know it’s coming. It’s lovely that you and your brother were there with her as she left this life and was taken to another. Sending love to you all xx

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JustKBO

I am so sad for you and your family. I’m glad your mum died peacefully surrounded by love. Hold That lové close in your heart. You will go on because that is the nature of things. Your mum is at peace, you did all you could to support her. X

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JacciJones

So sorry to hear this, sending condolences and lots of love and positive thoughts to you and your family x

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Newbery3

🦋💔 sorry for your loss, sending a big cwtch 🫂 xxx

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Jannibags

So very sorry for your loss.❤️

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OrdinarySoul

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Motiva

I am so sorry you have lost your precious Mum. Your support to her will have made such a difference. Now it is time for you to grieve and reflect on all you have done. Sending you our thoughts and a virtual hug. You have endured so much.

F x

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bananayo

So sorry to read your very sad news on the loss of your mum, sending love to you and your family xx

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SopSinger

So sorry to hear of your loss. It seems impossible now, but you will get through this, and find a way to live again (I'm sure that's what your Mum would have wanted). Treasure all the many good memories that you have and take comfort in the fact that she is now free from pain. Sending gentle hugs to you and your family.

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Morini

So sad to hear your news. Take good care of yourself as you grieve your wonderful Mum.xx

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Lochawe

So very sorry for the loss of your lovely mum and how peaceful for her having you and your brother there for her passingx

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Voyager3

I’m so sorry to hear about your mum passing. Thoughts are with you and your brother. X

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Laz66

Am sad and so sorry to read this. You have been a wonderful daughter and please take good care of yourself ❤️❤️Xx

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Mysticmeg123

My heart goes out to you. The loss of a mum at whatever age, its the most painful loss. However, you will find a way to move forward and in time, beautiful memories of her will bring you the comfort you need. Sending you lots of love at this very sad timex

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RoseMS

So very sad for you and your family. May she rest in peace. X

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1946val

so so sorry for your loss may you and your brother be free from sorrow for a long time to come God Bless

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Twinning

May the sadness in your heart be filled with happy memories. Mom would want it that way.❤️

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delia2

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure your mum was very comforted by all your love and care and I couldn’t imagine a better way to die than with my children holding my hands. May she rest in peace. And take care of yourself. You’ve been through so much. Xx

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Norelo8

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mum . With to you and your family

Kx

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PlantPower

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely mum. From what you say about her she was very much loved and you were also a wonderful daughter. How lucky we are in this life to have known such love, the loss is great but we are gifted with memories. This is a dreadful disease and we have to try hard to live life as full as we can and your mum did that. Many blessings and my condolences to you and your family at this very sad time. xxxxxxxxxxx

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Django123

I'm so very sorry to learn your sad news. I'm sure it was a comfort to your mother to have you and your family with her both during her illness and at the end. Blessings to all of you. --Lani

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Sandramo

love and thoughts 💜x

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Lilyada

So very sad - so sorry to read your news. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. 💐💐

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Pianoplayer731021

So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. Sending my love to you and your family. 🙏💕

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Summergold2

I am so sorry for you loss and the pain you and your family endured these past 5 years. I worry about my own daughter and the pain she will feel when I pass and I am not far from it now have been fighting 3 1/2 years. This cancer is so devastating to us all! So very sorry 😢

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NewtonEmma1900

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mum. You clearly have been a wonderful daughter; treasure the happy memories! 🙏💕

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Barmycharm

I’m so sorry for your loss. It grieves us all on here to lose another teal friend. Sending you and your family love and hugs at such a sad time for you all xx

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Lind58

said a prayer for you and your mom. No words but thinking of you

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Irisisme

I would like to add my condolences, it’s so very hard but just remember that she is no longer suffering.

Iris💐

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Schnauzer19

I’m so sorry to hear this, I just joined this group yesterday. I too have been diagnosed with stage 3A HGSOC and I’m terrified of leaving my 2 daughters as they need their mum. Sending love to you and your family.

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