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I have not been on the forum for a while I have been spending time with my Mum who sadly died suddenly last Thurs in her own home . She was easy to love, kind, generous, compassionate, with a keen sense of fun. . She adored her family but also give to the community. I have the most loving supportive husband, but my Mum was my rock and constant and I so loved her . I am and will miss her dreadfully. I have posted a picture of myself with Mum from about 15 months ago after my 1st course of chemo. Love Chris

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Lyndy

Chris I am so sorry....losing your Mum leaves a huge gap whenever it happens. It’s a lovely picture and I am glad she died at home. Take care of yourself in these early days of loss. Love Lyndy x

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CarolynA

Hi Chris. I am so sorry to hear this sad news. It is a lovely photo & one that I hope prompts lots of happy memories in the future. Take care & go gently. Love Carolyn x

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85live4ever

Dear Chris, I am so sorry for your loss. What touch me was the lovely things you said about your mum. She looks very kind in this beautiful photo. I hope you have lots of family & friends around you at this very sad time. My thoughts go with you take care Cindyxx

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January-2016-UK

It very sad to lose a parent and you will always miss her. Think of all the good things she's done as much as you can and remember to seek out extra care for yourself at this very difficult time for you.

It's a lovely photo. Tare care now!

Helen

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Juliette35

Chris I am so sorry to hear about your mum passing , it's a lovely photo and one what you will treasure and all the lovely memories of your mum . My thoughts are with you , fondest love Julie xxx

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Maggiemo19

Oh Chris I am so sorry to hear such sad news. Your lucky to have such a loving husband to see you through such a sad time. I miss my mom every single day. God bless xxx

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Purple-iris

So sorry for your loss . Sending love and prayers at this difficult time. A beautiful picture of you both .

Take care . Love Kim x 💜

HI Chris, I was sorry to read your post about your mum but it seems like you both had such a warm relationship and this will help keep the memories of your mum alive.

Do take care of yourself..Lorraine xx

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Suzanne333

Oh chris. That’s so very sad. I’m thinking of you.

Lovely photo to treasure and I’m sure you have so many amazing memories.

Big hugs xxxx

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Chamber

So sorry to read this Chris. There’s never anyone quite like your mum

Much love

Judy xx

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SCWI

So sorry for your huge loss. She looks so lovely and very precious. God bless and take care, Love Sophia x

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LittleSan

So sorry to hear this Chris. That's a beautiful photo.

I lost my Mum last new year and feel a new inner strength that my mum is with me seeing me through. I miss her physical presence as we were so close but do find comfort that all her love and guidance is still so much a part of me. I hope you find the same and this will help you through the passing of your lovely Mum.

Sandra xx

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Alifit

Chris,

I’m so sorry to hear about your mum, my thoughts are with you.

With love Ali x

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Kayp

Sad for you , lovely photo, replay all the happy times in your head x

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avid

So sorry for your loss. I lost my mum over 20 years ago and there are many times when I would like to chat to her.

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Howick01

So sorry for your loss xxx

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Bettyxxx

What a lovely picture and lots of memories to treasure xx sending you love and best wishes xx

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Yoshbosh

I’m so sorry for your loss, Chris xxx

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Cropcrop

Chris, I’m so sorry for your sad loss, there’s nobody who can ever replace your mum but you have your lovely husband to support you through this awful time, you have shared such a lovely photo of the two of you. In time you will be able to look back on the lovely happy times you shared. She is always with you you are a part of her and she is a part of you, I miss my mum but I keep her love within and her particularly wicked sense of humour going daily and pass that on to my boys and their children so she lives on through us all.

Big comforting hugs and love lovely lady ❤️Xx Jane

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Neona

So very sorry to read this. So glad you were able to be there for your mum.

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airfemale

How very sad. Sorry for your loss. Sharon

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annieH1

Hi Chris,so sorry for your loss.I lost my mum suddenly in 2011 and I still miss her very much today.My thoughts with you and family xx

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Btte

Dear Chris so very sorry for the loss of your mum, I lost my dear mum 19 years ago but since my diagnosis I talk to her all the time. Such a lovely photo looking at the empty plates I think she enjoyed her afternoon tea. Lots of love Bridie

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Katmal-UK

So sorry for your loss Chris. Lovely picture. I felt the same way about my mum and when she passed away I was in total despair. There isn't a day goes by when I don't think of her and wish I could have 5 more mins but I can't so I just go on because I know she wouldn't have wanted me to be sad. You have memories and they will comfort you. Sending you a hug. Take care. Kathy xx

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Joanie12

Love and best wishes to you, life will be different again! Be kind to yourself and may your mum rip xx joanie

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Lewisriley47

So sorry for your loss but Mums never really leave you xc I lost both Mum and Dad within eight days eleven years ago and still talk to them. Pam xx

So sorry for your loss Chris. What a lovely photo of you both.

Take care xx jenny

‘💐Loves last gift is remembrance 💐

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judyved-US

Hi Chris....I am so sorry for your loss....

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.....Judyved

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Kim1958

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my own Mom 2 weeks ago, so I know the pain that comes with losing a mother. Sending prayers your way. Kim xx

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Clearcell-lady

That's such sad news Chris! Losing your mother is one of life's major upheavals! You have been blessed with enjoying her love for many years, but still we mourn and miss our mother's presence because it's such a comforting feeling to have your mother close by. I'm very sorry for your loss. May her love remain a constant reminder that though you are now apart, she will be with you in spirit forever.

MaryAnne

I am really sorry you lost your rock and best friend, it has to be very hard for you. I lost my own mother just after my first regime of chemo and it was difficult

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IrishMollyO

Hi Chris

I’m so sorry to read about lovely mother . My deepest sympathy goes out to you. My own dear mother died three years ago and I still miss her and her loving wisdom. It’s such a beautiful photo of two very strong women . I pray that the pain of your grief will ease and that your lovely memories of her will sustain you into the future. Take care .

XXX

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thomas62

My deepest sympathy on hearing about the loss of your lovely mum.

Gwen xxx

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LindaB

Sorry to hear your very sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family xx

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dryden1

Thank you all for taking time to respond to my post I have so appreciated all your empathetic responses. What a wonderful group of women you are.Love Chris

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Hertsmum

Very sorry to hear about your loss, we are never ready to lose our mums! Hope you can find comfort in the many happy memories of your times together like in the photo - lovely! I lost my mum 2 years ago and although she was very frail and not really herself she was still a source of strength and comfort to me and I still miss her, but I do hear her voice quite often in my head! The one consolation is i’m glad she doesn’t have to worry about my health any more as she was devastated by my diagnosis st 48.

Take good care and allow yourself all the time you need to grieve but do nice things too.

Love & hugs

Madeline xx

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Lily-Anne

I'm so very sorry to read this, I was devastated when I lost my Mum, we had a feisty relationship, I loved her deeply and am sure I could have been a better daughter, she loved me very much and I miss her wisdom and understanding.

Sending you my love at what I am sure is a difficult time

LA xx

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Caroles1

Lovely photo, Mums are special, lost mine 8 years ago and there isn’t a day goes by I don’t think of her.

I was an only child and it is a great loss, but I fill it with my grandsons.

I feel for you, remember the good times😘xx

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