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1916 - Ann - (aka Liz)

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Hi Al

Liz was my guiding light as we first walked this path. She was a few months ahead of me on our journeys. So as I faced my op, then chemo, I always had the knowledge Liz has done this, Liz is older than me if she can get through this bit, I can do it. She was such an inspiration.

Our paths crossed in the most unusual way. My husband always used to walk the dog (pre cancer days) at 7.30am each morning. He used to pass Liz to say Good Morning. Then in early September 2017, near the start of my journey, he was off work, whilst we got over the initial shock and attending numerous hospital appointments, He was now walking Our dog at random times of the day, when he came across Liz walking her dog. As they were both there at an unusual time and not rushing off to their working day, they paused to chat. That is where the connection began. Liz told Derek she had, had the operation, I was about to face and was to commence chemotherapy due to Ovarian Cancer. The connection was made and we were brought together.

I was lucky I managed nearly 2 years NED, but Liz moved on through up to 5th line treatment, but she battled through with such, positivity, strength, poise and grace, she was a force to be reckoned with

A few weeks ago she told me she had been moved onto palliative care, ironically it was the same week I was informed my cancer had returned.

So my hubby helped her hubby chop up their sofa so a hospital bed could be put in their lounge. Liz battled on for a couple of weeks. Last week when I visited she told me I had got to continue the fight for the two of us now, I promised I would.

So yesterday as I sat in my chemo chair (you all know the type) ready to commence my 2nd line treatment (another lot of Carbo/Taxol) The call came from Liz’s number, I thought you beat me to it I was going to message once I was underway. It was her husband, Liz gained her Teal wings Wednesday late night.

When I got home last night there was a little white feather at the very start of our front path. I know it was Liz telling me she was still supporting me.

It was me who told Liz about this forum (she was a proud, private lady hence the name Ann used) telling her how wonderful and supportive it was here, not negative and you did not disappoint me. She was so pleased and happy with the advise and support she received. So thank you all for supporting and helping Liz as she did to me.

Fly high Liz with your Teal wings, you suffered far more than you ever should have, you are now free of pain, sickness and at peace.

Good Bye my beautiful friend. 💔💖⭐️🥰

Julie xxx

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A lovely tribute to your friend Julie. My condolences to you and her family

Fly high teal angel. 🦋

xx

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Katiebairdie

Sorry to hear your sad news. Your lovely words brought tears.

Condolences to her family and to you.

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LittleSan

So sorry for your loss, she sounds like a lovely friend and a great support to you you. Love and strength to you and all who loved her. 💐💐💐😘😘 X

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Veronica58

RIP Liz. ❤️

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Coldethyl

Such a lovely tribute to your friend - thinking of her and her family and you - and wishing you sucesss with your treatment x

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Cropcrop

What a lovely and heartfelt tribute to your beautiful friend, the support and love you had for each other is wonderful . Keep the feather she sent you, I have one from someone close too, they’re special. I’m so very sorry she has passed and I send you and all her family my condolences.

Fly high lovely liz 🦋, we’ll look after your friend for you. ❤️Xx Jane

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delia2

I’m so sorry for your loss but also glad the two of you had each other to share the journey and develop a lovely friendship. I wish you the best with your chemo!

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Eleybelly

What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful friend ❤️

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Birdsong222

Julie, what a wonderful tribute. Your admiration and pride to have known Liz shines through. Condolences to everyone especially Liz's husband. Our partners are with us every step of this journey. Strength to everyone at this difficult time. Sylvia xx

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SUE7777

I'm so sorry you have lost your lovely positive friend. You have written a lovely story to inspire all of us. She's clearly looking out for you still.

God Bless Sue xx

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TarbonNZ

This brought tears to my eyes, it is so close to home. RIP Liz.

What a beautiful tribute to your friend.

Sending you hugs xx

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Maxjor

Such a beautiful story and I am so sorry for you--and her family's loss. oxoxox

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Lizchips

Thank you for such a beautiful tribute keep up the good fight. I'm sure your friend will be with you every step of the way. I don't know why some of us pass and some of us survive. Only God knows. You were blessed to have her in your life, Godspeed, Liz

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Btte

A beautiful post for your dear friend, my thoughts and prayers to you and her dear husband and family. Love Bridie

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Lizchips

Beautiful words, sorry for her family and friends loss. Prayers, Liz

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