Anyone feel like life repeats itself?

[CallmeMum]

Just wondering how many people feel like life repeats itself? You have a problem that finally gets put to rest then suddenly something else on the same subject happens, for example something happens that involves person A and person B then person C who knows about it says about it to persons D E F and G after person C said they won’t tell anyone else for one reason or another. Do you feel like it’s a consistent merry go round? Xxx

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I get the impression something specific has happened!

Jenny

[Katsmum]

Life sometimes seems like a soap opera - I used to wonder if the script writers had secretly been watching our town for ideas!! Of course people who say they won’t tell anyone something that is supposed to be a confidence often find it impossible and have to confide in someone else. That’s human nature for you but I hope whatever is troubling you gets sorted xx

[85live4ever in reply to Katsmum]

Hi Katsmum, yes you are right its almost impossible to keep secrets but recently I was told something that not only did I have to keep it to my self but not get angry over it. I am very proud of myself I haven't told anyone outside the people that already knews. But I did blow up some what over the pain of it & got very angry.

We are all suffering with oc even if we are a carer, a friend or family member that doesnt have cancer but are involved with someone that dose, brings its own challenges. So add secrets, dramatic situations, sad news & just the unfairness of it all & you have a stressed loved one.

I know Callmemum is a full time carer for her special friend, I know she is often on here asking questions on her friends behalf & it must be very hard work being a full time carer to someone with oc. I cared for my mum she also had oc & it was the most stressful & depressing thing I have ever done. Take care Cindyxx

[Carole666]

I learned many years ago that the only person who can keep your secrets is you

Cx

[bamboo89 in reply to Carole666]

Exactly, Carole666 - but personally, I just tell everyone everything about my stuff, I hate secrets....

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I wonder if sometimes I keep stuff from myself I can be so private. But if I don't want something known, I don't say it.