I've always been extremely organised and a perfectionist - at work and at home, I'm well known for it even in my job. Lately I've been getting very stressed out when things don't go to plan, if someone all of a sudden tells me I need to go somewhere different to what I had planned on a weekend for example I just fall apart. I cry most of the time because I just can't deal with the thought of having to change my plans. I get really stressed.
Little things like when the curtains aren't straight, or when DVDs aren't in order, or if a vase isn't exactly in the centre of the fireplace, or if something isn't symmetrical - annoys the hell out of me. I can't just leave it I have to move whatever it is until it's perfect. This doesn't really bother me that much - it's more of my first point as I get very stressed out and upset, I just need to know if there's something wrong with me...
Is this just normal organised behaviour? Or is it something like OCD?
Please help... Thanks