Sorry about this but I need to get this out somewhere where people will understand.
Good news is That I finally find myself after two years in a position where I am managing my RA really well. I'm not able to work yet but I am living a mostly pain free life as long as I keep the incredibly delicate balancing act up. The bad news is that my house mate is a complete nutter. That's two in a row for me. Another overly demanding woman who feel I should be spending all my time with her and not managing my illness like I am. The other day she lost her temper over something i9ncredibly tiny that her boyfriend said to her brother she then dragged everyone in the house into it I left, I don't like stress cos it literally hurts, I flare up when stressed so if it's not important enough to deal with I walk away, of course she feels that every tiny thing is that i9mportant and started screaming and shouting at me, I lost my temper for the first time here I have been here nearly three months and that was the first time I lost my temper at her. The next day she comes at me again I told her she was a controll freak and she told me to ,move out. So now I'm flared up stressed and looking for a new house while at the same time the social welfare are still asking for proof of address ( that I have sent them three times already) So if I move now it's going to be one massive head ache with those guys. life is hard enough with this illness without having to deal with nutters. I really don't understand how she can be so upset over such tiny tiny things and then to keep it all in her head untill months later and I'm sitting her going "OMG that is a problem for you?" WTF I am a very reasonable person I know this I have overreacted occasionally, we all do, but then I apologise and get on with my life I don't carry it with me so I can attack someone with it later. AAAAAARG!!!! save me jebus!