Hi everyone, I've been missing for a while had no internet. Have done 3 of the most stressful things in the last month.
Don't know if anyone remembers but
I applied for a new job - Got it and started 2 weeks ago, its going OK not sure I'm actually cut out for managerial positions (Had to do my first telling off last week)
Moved house - it seems the house I was in was suffering from subsidence and as I rent from the council (or Housing Association) they gave me a choice, they could fix the house around us and replaster or we could move to another property around the corner; so I checked the other house out and it was so much better than the one we are in so it was a no brainer. Moving house with children is NOT recommended
Obviously if anyone remembers I split from my partner a few months back (5) and currently still having problems with him but I am slowly regaining some control back, had to do mediation with him a few weeks back, because out of the blue he decided he wanted custody of our children, I offered 50/50 and he said all or nothing, we were supposed to have 2 more sessions but he never turned up for them, but it does mean I can apply to the courts now for a proper residence order for the children.
The best news is that I'm on day 53 and I won't lie I have many a time wanted to smoke and have been very close to buying some cigarettes but I have just kept plodding along.
How is everyone else doing?