Fish fight!!

I NEED PRAWNS - A KIPPER - SALMON - CAT FISH - RAINBOW TROUT - A HAMMER HEAD SHARK STAT

I swear he is TRYING to make me throttle him today, i had a word with myself and realised i was being silly ive built up the potential pitfalls for this weekend and blown them out of proportion,

Im a bit weepy today, its 2 yrs ago we buried my nan, and 10 years ago i was told my hubby wouldnt see christmas, and Id just lost my favourite aunt about the same time, but I try to turn it around, my ry tree is up, ive written my cards and let the kids run wild around me, but HE IS seriously F888888888in trying me, then he says ive been giving him attitude, im sorry getting a lie in til lunch and having breakfast made with a smile and a kiss is attitude? GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

its like he wants to push me back to smoking, hes pushing old buttons then waiting for me to run (well hobble i still cant walk properly yet) to the shop,

Ive told him i was feeling wary of my quit power this weekend and all he's doing is being a c & T & f in B

sorry i HAD to vent or ill cry and give in,

im just off to grab the salmon i was defrosting and shove it ............

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  • fish fight

    Good evening Sassy Mama your really are having one .... of a day by the sounds of it. Hang on in there for another 3 and a bit hours and you've got another day under your belt.

    Tomorrow as they say is new day and hopefully will be less stressful than today.

    Best of luck with your quit,it does get easier believe me.

    Michael a.k.a:-lefoy123 in Glasgow

  • Hey Sassy,

    Sorry to hear you're having a rubbishy time, to me it sounds like he wants you to fail. Does he smoke perchance? Take a couple of deep breaths and walk away- failing that there's always the fish....

  • Awww Sassy, It's not sounding too good for you at the moment... I think I saw one of the other members on here waving a wet fish around, I wonder where they've hidden it!!! :rolleyes:

    Really hope things improve for you hun, You are doing so well. Big hugs.

    Take Care.

    Love May x

  • Oh bugger sassy

    Sounds like it's getting on top of you a bit.

    Get away from it all chuck....go to bed with a good book or laptop if you have one....maybe in the spare room :)

    Read your own sig ..... chin up ... we got this!

    You have been through some serious crap in the past, this is your time!

    If all else fails .... go for the stinging double trout slap!

    An old move but still a gold move! :D

    forum.nosmokingday.org.uk/p...

    Hope all calms down soon

    Greg

    x

  • Haha love the pic Greg!!

  • awesome pic

    thanks guys, I usually hide upstairs on a sat and watch my cr@p tv and let him xbox it with his mates, so i was REALLY mature and set up camp in the livingroom and said NO you cant be nice i can be an a hole too.

    At which point he said I dont need this attitude back *GAME OVER* oh im giving attitude BACK meaning you know youve been an AH ole all day.

    cue stuttering etc, continued to set up junk tv nest and phoned mum who is also really weepy today, and she wanted a smoke - talked her down and she didnt she stuck to a toke on her nic stick. so result 2 cigs really wanted and not smoked (1 each)

    He doesnt smoke never has, and has been totally unsupportive on this quit, and he knows i can be petty and i used to do stuff like smoke in the house (i never have by my own rules) if he pee'd me off,

    I think we're just both having a bad day - so i went to the shop and bought lino for the bathroom (aka more work for him on his weekend off hahahaha annoy me will you!)

  • I hope you're both fighting today as well - this thread is far too entertaining for peace to break out in your household this weekend! :p

    Nifty - superb fish photo! ("Stinging double trout slap".....LMAO)

  • Oh bugger sassy

    Sounds like it's getting on top of you a bit.

    Get away from it all chuck....go to bed with a good book or laptop if you have one....maybe in the spare room :)

    Read your own sig ..... chin up ... we got this!

    You have been through some serious crap in the past, this is your time!

    If all else fails .... go for the stinging double trout slap!

    An old move but still a gold move! :D

    forum.nosmokingday.org.uk/p...

    Hope all calms down soon

    Greg

    x

    Sassy mama

    I'm with ya my partner was such a dick at the start of my quit that I could have given him the double trout slap quite happily.

    Just keep it up hun cause u think in time and when he starts being petty, you know your the stronger character for remaining quit..

    Greg love the pic Pmsl

  • Booooooooo

    Well Ive tried being reasonable and hes a trout faced get, I now am not talking to him, ive told him he knows its a crap weekend, and he should snap out of it, cos he's ""just feeling off its something and nothing"" (i said you can stop making something of nothing or just ((insert insult of choice here)) off then cant you)

    Mum and dad have come to see me and theyve taken me tp my hosp appt and a result of me not using a big teddy for a cusion when i went stair surfing means ive cacked my collarbone and my ankle and badly bruised me knee, not enough to have surgery or plaster, just the border before those actions with all the pain, so ive been signed off work another week,been strapped up and told to rest.

    Dad has only had 10 cigs here (ive counted) and mum says its usually well more, mum has stopped altogether now.

    And him the trout faced get?? Ive unplugged his precious xbox and thrown it in the ice box kitchen and told him to play there, meaning we have spoken a total of 20 words today - and ive opened his voddy for a cheeky snifter he can KMA!

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