Day 12, and I'm about to buy me a pack

[nsd_user663_25710]

Damn, I been doing so good, and not having any cravings.. However. Got in to a fight with hubby. Now I'm about to buy a pack and smoking all at once. But I don't think I should... Maybe tomorrow will be better. In meanwhile I should just get th hell out of Facebook for good.. ( Thats the only way I communication with him)...

[nsd_user663_23651]

Hi Buke please don't go buy a pack because it won't make it any better, you have come too far to spoil it now. I have gone through bad things and I didn't cave in, how I don't know! It will be better tomorrow.

Bet.

[nsd_user663_24569]

dont you dare! i cant believe you are about to waste all your hard work for almost 2 whole weeks!

dont do it hun. you will regret it...take some deep calm breaths..then go beat crap out of a pillow!

[nsd_user663_20558]

Ohhhh no you don't.

So you had a fight with an aggravating ex. Will smoking a) turn back the clock and make it not have happened? b) fix the causes of the fight? c) improve your ex's personality?

No, no and no.

Smoking will NOT make you less stressed, either.

It WILL make you smelly, make you cough, cost you a fortune, make you unhappy, and quite possibly kill you.

Stop. Think. You've come too far to smoke now. Stay strong. Have a good rant on the forum. Eat chocolate. Do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better, but don't buy fags!

Helen x

[nsd_user663_25710]

Buqe I hope you will not rush into anything.

It doesn't sound as though this is going to be the last row you have so you have to be strong. If you cave in now you will cave in every time you have a fall out. Having a cigarette won't change things it will only add to the upset you are feeling now and when the dust settles you will be angry at yourself.

Talking to each other via a social networking site only is not normal. Maybe you should both sit down and try and communicate face to face again

I wish we could talk face to face. But his in Iraq. For me to call him it costs a lot of money, and for some strange reason he can't call me..

I'm alright. I took nice shower watched some funny shows. Now trying to lay down and maybe sleep.. I know I want to far to even think about smoking now, I guess I was just pissed...

Thanks guys. Tomorrow its a new day. and hopefully better than today

[nsd_user663_7235]

Are you going to let him make you smoke?It won't change anything only you.

I wouldn't smoke for any man and I'm a guy....................I think.

Jack

[nsd_user663_7235]

I wish we could talk face to face. But his in Iraq. For me to call him it costs a lot of money, and for some strange reason he can't call me..

I'm alright. I took nice shower watched some funny shows. Now trying to lay down and maybe sleep.. I know I want to far to even think about smoking now, I guess I was just pissed...

Thanks guys. Tomorrow its a new day. and hopefully better than today

Well done you.:):):)

Jack

[nsd_user663_25710]

Are you going to let him make you smoke?It won't change anything only you.

I wouldn't smoke for any man and I'm a guy....................I think.

Jack

LOL, NO.. I was just pissed. and We all know, when we smoked first thing we did when angry, was smoke.. But I'm ok NOW.....,..

[nsd_user663_24569]

glad you didnt go with your impulse hun.

you just achieved quite a lot by resisting what was a very stressful time.

well done you! gold star & go to the top of the class