Chrissie I forgot

[nsd_user663_4785]

Hi babes

just got the cushion bit...............sorry I forgot it was today you were going. How did it go? Did you see your cake?

Carol x

[nsd_user663_4975]

Quiet!

Bible Black

Every comment I read from you on here is pedantic and negative - what is your agenda?

I'm not trying to start an argument with you - just wondering what you would like this forum to be and what makes you want to stop people saying what they would like to?

You are the only negative influence that I've so far seen in a lovely supportive place so I'm just wondering.... why?

[nsd_user663_4785]

Bible Black

Every comment I read from you on here is pedantic and negative - what is your agenda?

I'm not trying to start an argument with you - just wondering what you would like this forum to be and what makes you want to stop people saying what they would like to?

You are the only negative influence that I've so far seen in a lovely supportive place so I'm just wondering.... why?

It seems like he doesn't like Chrissie and I blocking up the forum with sensless crap...............oh and he doesn't like the way Marg welcomes people to the forum.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm he's given me a lot of support with my quit tonight.

Be careful writerchris giving up smoking is a serious business and not something to laugh about.

Carol xxx

[nsd_user663_4975]

Ha ha ha

Yes Carol, God forgive us if we dare to have a bit of a giggle and a chat along the way - we should just stick to very short comments like

I have attained a 0% carbon monoxide level... processing...

Honestly! Last time I heard nonsense like this it was from a predect at prep school.

Perhaps he'd like to discuss it all with a 6'2 nicotine withdrawing Geordie (that'll be me!)

[nsd_user663_4990]

Can i recommend that folk use the 'Report Post' function if they find any posts they find objectionable, and in the case of what i can see above in BB's post.. somewhat bullying in nature. I've done just that..

Its the little icon next to the post number that looks like a road-sign.

You get to put your reason for reporting the post too. Hopefully the forum admins will see it and perhaps nail it down a bit for us.

Its not the first negative posting i've seen from BB now, and if he's upsetting folk at all, then hopefully the moderators/admins can help.

You don't need to resort to PM'ing you two, many of us LIKE to read the posts like that, we don't need jackboots telling us what we can and cannot do, until he's got ADMINISTRATOR or MODERATOR as his forum role, he can just keep his opinions to himself imho.

[nsd_user663_3784]

Good advice there.

It is far better to report than enter into an argument which may in turn draw more people into it. We do not mind how many people report a post so please do not assume that somebody else will have done so. When a post is reported the situation is reviewed and any action deemed necessary is taken. Sometimes this action is taken privately and sometimes publicly to the forum as appropriate, but at no point do we disclose who reported.

[nsd_user663_3728]

Hi Jase

Thanks for the support also you Chris thanks both of you

Jase I took your advice this morning before I even saw this as I've had enough of it

Love

Marg xxxxxxxxxxx

[nsd_user663_4990]

If you are in any doubt then click on the 'forum rules' at the bottom of each forum page. I think the post from BB above break at least 2 of the first 3 forum rules. In no way does this thread, and the thread starter break ANY forum rules, in fact, its actively encouraged!!

Forum Rules

Many rules are common sense, but i think the following is quite relevent. Its just a copy/paste from the forum rules, but i think you can se

1. Be respectful of others at all times. The purpose of the forum is to provide a supportive platform and share each other’s quit experience. While debating and discussion is fine, we will not tolerate rudeness, insulting posts, personal attacks or purposeless inflammatory posts. Occasionally, there will be conflicts that arise when people voice opinions so be courteous when disagreeing with others. It is possible to disagree without being insulting. Also, remember that the meaning of words can be distorted in an electronic message - something you intend as a joke can be misconstrued as offensive.

2. Personal attacks are prohibited. Commonly known as flaming, personal attacks are posts which are designed to personally berate or insult another. Text of this nature is not beneficial to the forum spirit and will not be tolerated. This includes conversation through private messages and visitor messages.

3. Trolling is prohibited. Trolling is the word used to describe a post that is deliberately designed for the purpose of angering and insulting the members of the forum. This includes conversation through private messages and visitor messages. Posts of this nature are disruptive and do not convey a friendly attitude.

[nsd_user663_3728]

Hi Jase

Thanks

Love

Marg xxxxxxx