Birthday Suggestions

[Yat83]

My birthday is July 18 I have dialysis that day. Idk what to do after I’m done..? Hopefully

I’m not to tired any suggestions? Thanks and how’s everyone doing?

[LadyLuv]

In your case, plan ahead right now. That way you can optimize your day. That's the goal for you.

Happy Early B-day!!!!

[Yat83 in reply to LadyLuv]

Thank you

[wolfmom94]

Any way to get your bday off? Double up 2 days in a row & have a free day? Good luck! & Happy Birthday!

[Yat83 in reply to wolfmom94]

My normal days are Monday Wednesday Friday I could go Monday Thursday Friday but I have no plans no friends so I’ll just go on my normal days and prolly treat myself to lunch but thank you so much

[wolfmom94]

Aw sweetie, I'm sorry-maybe go somewhere where they'll sing happy birthday to you Whatever you decide to do I hope you're day is happy & fun & you have a wonderful bday! We'll be thinking of you--a very early happy birthday to you!

[Yat83 in reply to wolfmom94]

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 thank you 🤗🙂

[wolfmom94 in reply to Yat83]

So have you made any plans yet? What about celebrating your bday twice? Go to a July 4th event-be around happy (well mostly drunk lol) people, enjoy the fireworks, & definitely tell them it's your bday & just let them do what they do! Which is congratulate you & sometimes hug you or buy you a drink (doesnt have to be alcoholic if you dont drink.) Just get in the grove lol, enjoy, have fun, & maybe make a friend or two/three! Then on the 18th, do whatever you want to do--if you want to go to lunch, GO! If you're too tired after dialysis, then go treat yourself to dinner!! It's your bday!!

[wolfmom94]

Wait, didnt i read somewhere that you have kids-teenagers right? Arent they wanting to do something for you? I know they probably dont understand what you're going thru but they do understand a bday! I'm hoping they surprise you! I bet they will!

[Yat83 in reply to wolfmom94]

Good evening Wolfmom94 well I’m what you consider or call a introvert. And I’m going through a horrible breakup as well so everything I’m going through I’m dealing with a break up. My son is taking me out to lunch to longhorn steakhouse. (He won a gift card at football practice) my son is15 my daughter is 18 she has to have some type of dental surgery on my birthday (she has braces) now that they are older they truly understand my son keep telling me he’s donating his kidney too me. I can’t take that. Yes I do drink. On occasion tho. With my severe depression I’ll be in the house. I do plan on going to the movies next week. I’m going to see uncle drew & the purge. What plans do you have for the holiday..?