Hello Guys. A few days ago i mentioned in a post that very soon a life changing event was going to happen in my life. It may be very ordinary to some of you but to me it is very important. Some of you know that i am an Albanian girl which actually i live in Albania a very small country in Europe some of you heard of it i guess. Well life in Albania it is difficult. I mean it is true i have a lot of memories in here, it is my country and i love it with all the good and the bad things but the opportunities brought to our generation and to other generations also are very little. Most of the people in here don't have a house cause they cannot afford to buy it and basically most of people rent a house. The wages are minimal in the 80% of the population. Even-though i live in Tirane which is the capital of Albania i still aimed for my future. Like i said i have some big goals that i want to fulfill and the first thing it to find a way that opens the door of opportunities. For 11 years my family and I have been waiting for a migration visa to move in USA. and finally it is here in 21 January, just a few days from now i am moving in US. It is going to be very difficult for me and my parents. My parents don't speak English and starting the life from the beginning it is very challenging. My new destination very soon is Chicago, Illinois. But in this post I, want to share with you some concerns that i have. I mean it is going to be very difficult but it is for a better chance, for a better future. Although in the other way i'm sad, really sad. First of all i have an amazing grandma which i love with all my heart. She lives in our home. Because of some health issues she is disabled now and cannot walk, she cannot go outside or even take some steps by her self. Also one year ago her lifetime companion, my grandpa passed away from cancer and now she is only with us. But the migration visa does not include her, only my parent and me. And now that we are leaving she is going to be alone. We hired a woman to take care of her but still that is one of the most sad and difficult things for me. To leave my nana here. The other thing is that I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. I love him with all my heart. To some of you it may look very simple but i'm scared of what is going to happen to our relationship. But in the bright side he is trying to get a student visa in Kanada so we can manage to be near each other and to have it easier to meet and take further actions with our life. He is trying from Kanada cause it is more expensive and more difficult for a US visa. Guys i really need your support in this moment and if anyone have experienced a sort of same thing please comment and give me some advice. I am excited, i am happy, i am also scared and challenged.
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