I have two little boys one is 3 and the other 2 , I am 20 year old and have just recently seen my midwife about my 3 year olds night terrors.
My partner wasn't in so I had them both by myself when she arrived , they were both really hyper and interrupting us speaking , which I didn't mind as it's what I'm used to. My littlest was on the couch and he stood up and she told me to move him incase he fell even though I had hold of him.
She then went on to ask if I needed help and if I was coping, I felt really offended by this , and now I'm scared she will take them away .
I know how naive I sound but no one has ever questioned my parenting before and now I feel completely crap and am terrified she thinks I can't cope!
My house is far from perfect but it's nicely decorated and clean , though on that morning when she unexpectedly arrived there was a few colouring in sheets on the floor and a cup on the mantle piece which I forgot to move , and I noticed she kept looking around at my things which also seemed strange, she can't take my children away for nothing can she?
Forgot to mention I'm not involved with social services whatsoever it was merely a check fro my midwife to see if my son was recovering from his night terrors , any advice would be appreciated , thanks