How I look at things

[RoyceNewton]

I do not look at limitations. What is the point of the, seriously what is the point? Yes I have regrets, I am human of course I have regrets. Decisions that I would like to have not made, BUT they are my decisions. I made them in the past with the best of intentions, with today's insight I am not happy with them, but I did make them. What is the point of regret? What will it change? What will it do to make my life better today? My guess is nothing, nothing at all. I accept that your acceptance might be a difficult process, full of turmoil for you, but I might suggest looking forward not backward. Yes, we all may have made mistakes but learn from them. Make tomorrow a better day. That we can control, yesterday to my knowledge and understanding is impossible. Learn from what YOU feel are your mistakes and do not repeat them.

[JSSimp]

Totally agree🙏🏾

[NorasMom]

I consider them "learning experiences." I didn't fail at making jelly on Sunday; I simply had a learning experience. Next time should go better!

[carolek572 CommunityAmbassador]

We all have choices to do as we please, RoyceNewton , and it depends on what is important to you!

[Kenu in reply to carolek572]

Right on !

[RoyceNewton in reply to Kenu]

thanks

[RoyceNewton in reply to carolek572]

certainly true

[MsBoo]

I have beat myself up for bad decisions I made.. but not as badly as I have for putting my daughter thru them also.. Until she said to me.. "The past is the past.. you can't change it.. do better now.. I'll live thru what I went thru.. you think of what you can do now!" And that struck a cord within me.. she doesn't blame me.. I don't need to feel bad.. she is getting help just like I did..

So thank you Royce, for reminding me to look in that mirror, and see ME as I am NOW.. not the me from before!

[RoyceNewton in reply to MsBoo]

it can be a beautiful sight if you let it be.

[kwhompus]

Do people actually ask you for your opinion?

[Kenu in reply to kwhompus]

Agree 👍🏼

[kwhompus in reply to Kenu]

Thank you

[Neworleanslady]

i hear u

[twooldcrows]

oh so well said ,again thank you for all that you share with us ....thank you and so glad you are back for you truly was missed and loved ....life filled with love and happiness and some great giggles to go along with our great life's ...