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I talked myself out of it, but the neurosurgeon took the time to call me and explain again how bad the spinal cord compression is. Surgery is scheduled for the 18th. I'm glad it's coming quickly, so I have less time to think about it. The worst part is forcing my darling sister into hosting Thanksgiving for us. It's just one night in the hospital, and I'll have to wear a hard neck brace for a few days, so no driving. I have lots of homemade meals in the freezer, but my daughter created a "meal train" for me on Facebook, so I will have little to do but watch old movies.

I'm going to ask for a zipper, so I can check things out in there periodically. I can be called "Zipper Neck," as in Young Frankenstein.

Thanks in advance for your prayers.

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JSSimp profile image
JSSimp

My prayers are with you. God bless!

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greaterexp in reply toJSSimp

Thank you so much!

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JSSimp in reply togreaterexp

You’re so welcome!

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Turtlepie

You have my prayers. Old movies are good

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greaterexp in reply toTurtlepie

Thank you! We have lots of DVDs and Amazon Prime!

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jimeka

Have faith, it will all go well and then no more pain and discomfort 🙏

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greaterexp in reply tojimeka

I'm not worried for just that reason. Thank you for the prayers!

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Doubled51

greaterexp . I agree totally with let’s get it done so I don’t have to sit around dreading it. My second surgery the dr said I could go straight to the hospital and check in and do the procedure in 2 days or go home and do it maybe in 2 weeks. So I went straight to the hospital. My first procedure I waited 2 months and I was about ready for the funny farm🤣😀😀.

I wish you the very best on your surgery and I’ll be praying for a painless and quick recovery 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

God bless my dear friend.

Donnie

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greaterexp in reply toDoubled51

Thank you, Donnie! I hope you are getting around better again! How is the walking going?

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Doubled51 in reply togreaterexp

It’a getting better all the time Erin. If I can cut the falls out I’ll be good. Everytime I think I’m doing really good I’ll fall and set myself back aways. Then I have to make that ground up again. I don’t think they understand that people with ms don’t need a reason to fall. It just happens.😀😃.

Donnie

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greaterexp in reply toDoubled51

Please be careful!

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Doubled51 in reply togreaterexp

I’m trying Erin. I’m trying.

Donnie

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greaterexp in reply toDoubled51

Let's have your grandkids surround you whenever you try to walk. Isn't that what they are there for?

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Doubled51 in reply togreaterexp

I’m afraid they would trip me and run laughing.😅😂😃😇. Just kidding. Haha

Donnie

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erash

You’ll do great

Sending 😉🙏

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greaterexp in reply toerash

Thank you for the encouragement!

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mrsmike

Good luck and blessings and prayers 🙏 being sent your way.

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greaterexp in reply tomrsmike

Thank you!

Good decision 👍

I wish you luck and prayers 🙏.

They had me wear the neck brace for three months....

The scar is not bad, still thinking 🤔 of getting a zipper tattoo over it!

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greaterexp in reply to

Ha! Thank you!

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bxrmom

Good luck on your surgery! Keep us updated when you can!

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greaterexp in reply tobxrmom

I'll do that!

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kdali

Aww, I’m glad you changed your mind, and you have a sweet family to help you! 🙏🥰

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greaterexp in reply tokdali

They're incredible! My daughter is heartbroken that she can't be here to help, but she organized a "meal train" for me. How thoughtful!

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kdali in reply togreaterexp

It’s so sweet!! 🥰

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twooldcrows

so glad it is going to happen quickly like you said so no worry it is to be done ....prayers for the fast recovery ...so glad sister will do the turkey day for ya all ...enjoy all of the old movies you get to watch....enjoy them ...enjoy life...love and happiness..

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greaterexp in reply totwooldcrows

Thank for your sweet words and prayers!

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leapsnbounds

You've got my prayers too.

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greaterexp in reply toleapsnbounds

I'm so grateful!

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Peruzzot

I hope and pray it all works out best for you and that you heal up quickly.

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greaterexp in reply toPeruzzot

Thank you. I think it will go well.

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Tazmanian

Good luck and enjoy thanksgiving

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greaterexp in reply toTazmanian

It will feel weird to just bake pies this year, but I’ll enjoy it! Pumpkin, pecan, and coconut cream

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Kenu

The Lord be with you and sending my prayers 🙏🙏. Stay strong and think positive and everything will be fine 👍 Good decision 😉🤗🤗Ken 🐾🐾😊

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greaterexp in reply toKenu

Thank you, Ken. God has this!

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tiffortat

Prayers for a productive surgery and peaceful recovery 🧡

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greaterexp in reply totiffortat

Thank you for your prayers!

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HensTooth

Hold it - hosting Thanksgiving!? ...After surgery no less. Have you given thought to the pandemic? (This is coming from a caring place, and not wanting to lose your reassuring posts on this blog!)

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greaterexp in reply toHensTooth

It would be only with very limited family who sequester themselves and have practically no contact with others. My brother-in-law is 82 with heart issues, so we don’t want to endanger him. I very much appreciate your kind words and concern.

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HensTooth in reply togreaterexp

I’m relieved. :-) Glad you’re staying safe.

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Neworleanslady

The end result will be good! Best wishes for a speedy recovery

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greaterexp in reply toNeworleanslady

Thank you!

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Humbrd

You'll do great and feel better! Blessings to you.

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greaterexp in reply toHumbrd

Thank you. The neurosurgeon has a great reputation.

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leking1

Love and prayers , and Angels to watch over you! Linda

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greaterexp in reply toleking1

Bless you for those prayers!

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leking1 in reply togreaterexp

You are going to be just fine, for God is with you!

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pamgarner

you are so strong and brave!so glad for your health,prayers and prayers.

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greaterexp in reply topamgarner

Thank you, dear. The bravery part is rather slim on my part, but the neurosurgeon made it clear that I have little choice if I'd like to function in the future.

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Oceandream

Definitely good it’s soon. Sorry you have to go through it. Sending healing hugs and wellness vibes💜❤️💜❤️Happy to hear you have the support to help you through!

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greaterexp in reply toOceandream

Thank you! I have wonderful family and friends. What blessings!

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falalalala

You've got my prayers

Do not help with the clean up. :)

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greaterexp in reply tofalalalala

After the surgery or Thanksgiving? 😁

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falalalala in reply togreaterexp

You can drag it out for a very long time until they catch you doing back flips :D

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greaterexp in reply tofalalalala

I thought you meant not to clean up the surgery suite.

I plan to milk this for a good 20 years.

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falalalala in reply togreaterexp

I just now caught that!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Offer to help beforehand so they'll do a good job.

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greaterexp in reply tofalalalala

👍

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Smithnova

Will the in my thoughts and prayer. Too a healthy, speedy recovery.

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greaterexp in reply toSmithnova

Thank you so much!

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A zipper in your neck, greaterexp ? I would be afraid that what little brain that I have left, would fall out! :-D

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for a successful surgery and a speedy recovery, my friend!

Keep Smiling :-D

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greaterexp in reply tocarolek572

Thank you so much. I guess I'll skip the zipper; they'd probably charge extra, anyway.

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carolek572CommunityAmbassador in reply togreaterexp

Perhaps Velcro? :-D

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greaterexp in reply tocarolek572

Great idea! You're a genius!

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carolek572CommunityAmbassador in reply togreaterexp

And you are brave, greaterexp and have more brains than I ~ currently :-D

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greaterexp in reply tocarolek572

I wonder if my brains slipped down and caused the compression? That would explain a lot!

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carolek572CommunityAmbassador in reply togreaterexp

And with a way out with this zipper/Velcro ~ woohoo, watch out! :-D

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janetb1968

Good luck honey, I’m sure you will be fine and feeling better soon xxxxx enjoy the old movies xxxxx ❤️

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Brindisi1

Prayers for you & surgeons & care team.if your doc thought serious enough and called you,good decision.

I can tell you are strong lady and will do well.

All will be praying for you.

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greaterexp in reply toBrindisi1

I sure appreciate the prayers! Thank you!

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mrsmike9

Glad it will be done by the end of this year so you can start the new one out fresh. I will mark that date on my calendar and will also be praying.

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greaterexp in reply tomrsmike9

So true. I agree! Thank you for those prayers.

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eharoot

you have my thoughts, prayers and admiration for this

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greaterexp in reply toeharoot

I hope I live up to those expectations and not turn into a whiner! Thank you for your prayers.

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4432

I admire your attitude. Prayers be with you🙏

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greaterexp in reply to4432

I so appreciate those prayers! Thank you!

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agapepilgrim

my second cousin just had that surgery last week. he came through it with flying colors. His mother was my cousin who died of MS. He thinks he has MS but refuses to seek medical help due to his mother's experience. But the surgery was a great success and he is home and walking. May God watch over you, and the peace of Jesus be with you every minute.

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greaterexp in reply toagapepilgrim

Thank you, dear. I know I'm in His hands. I'm sorry to hear about your second cousin's decision not to see if he has MS so he can get treatment. But I can understand his fears.

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Kitsey

Lots of prayers for great surgical success and healing.

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greaterexp

I so appreciate that.

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Prayers and many Blessings coming your way.

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greaterexp in reply toCalfeeChick

Thank you so much!

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Amore55

Erin, God guide yoursurgeon’s hands. Be well and safe and remember how much we all love you. Let us know how well you do. Love you so much my dear friend, Kelly xxx

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greaterexp in reply toAmore55

Thank you, sweet friend!

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BigMar7

You will be in my thoughts and prayers !! Remember we are all Warriors here! ♥️

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greaterexp in reply toBigMar7

Thank you for the reminders!

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MarkUpnorth

The anticipation, and having to (you know you don't) answer every commenter, is the worst. Doing it, you'll be in deep sleep. Just remember to dream sweet things, not reliving going through the initial part of the major tsunami that hit Thailand back in 2004, like in the movie The Impossible, when the doctor having barely survived it, goes in for surgery.

Hopefully this post will get old enough and you can move on. Yes best wishes for a good surgery and good recovery. Just fast forward through the recovery part to the back on the beach in the future. No, make it some tiny remote lake in the mountains. No tsunami's there.

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greaterexp in reply toMarkUpnorth

👍

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Allen5280

🙏 for a speedy recovery

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greaterexp in reply toAllen5280

Thank you, Allen. How are you?

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Allen5280 in reply togreaterexp

Ehhh, im here still. Started the annual battle with the holiday blues. Our crazy weather pattern changes are a nightmare all in their own. To much to quick and i cant adapt. Seem to have fallen back into strange sleep patterns (or lack of a pattern is more like it ) It will be ok though, I think. Ots getting closer to me starting with my new MS doctor so im a bit hopeful on that. Only time will tell.

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Buddy2009

Hope that your surgery goes well and you have a speedy recovery. Think good thoughts.

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greaterexp in reply toBuddy2009

Thank you !

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johnMSAAPartner

From the team at MSAA, wishing you best of luck!

- John, MSAA

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greaterexp in reply tojohnMSAA

Thank you!

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RoyceNewton

Good luck and get better fast

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greaterexp in reply toRoyceNewton

Thank you!

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Ladybriars

My thoughts and prayers goes out to you! You got this. Diane

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greaterexp in reply toLadybriars

Thank you! The surgeon has a great track record, which is very reassuring.

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Tulip77

Praying for everything to go well and skilled hands for your surgeon!

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greaterexp in reply toTulip77

Thank you! I’m feeling good about it. I’ll still be glad to have it over with..

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Tulip77 in reply togreaterexp

The anticipation is usually the worst

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