Unnumbered post It is okay to fail 06 Nov 2020

[RoyceNewton]

Good Friday morning to "YOU" my ms family. I hope everybody slept better than I did. The house is dark at O330 in the morning. I hurt after yesterdays massage. I thought those things were meant to make "YOU" feel better. Well, maybe next time.

Regardless of what "YOU" are told, what "YOU" expect, what is expected of "YOU", what "YOU" expect of yourself. We all have ms. We WILL fail at something. The first time, the second, the twenty-fifth. IT IS OKAY. Do not be angry upset or hurt with yourself. We are all chronically disabled in some form. Do not expect of yourself, the behaviour "YOU" had in your youth. Do NOT compare yourself to others. This is your path to travel. Your journey. If "YOU" have a hiccup, a setback it is okay. Nobody is an expert on your ms. Not your family, your lover, not even your expert highly trained doctors, NOBODY.

So do not be angry, it is okay to fail. It is a part of the human condition, and last time I checked we were all human. So it is okay to fail, but it is not okay to give up and not even try.

Royce ( your ms writer and brother)

try and fail, but try again

[twooldcrows]

yes we all have other ways of doing some things for that is what is what happens after getting this thing MS ...my monster hahahahahhahahah....i still love life and will keep on keeping on ...this place has a lot of great help from others or where to look for some other answers ...it is great ...stay positive ...love and happiness filled with smiles and lots of laughter...

[Sandydemop]

Hi Royce, I hope your day went better than last night. The thing about trying and failing is...predictable. But I do try, anyway. I still have this hope that maybe i will be able to close that button, not drop that cup, etc. I keep trying. Still doing acupuncture, veggies, PT and so on. I still have hope that i won't fail, or if i fail, I'll fail gracefully. Maybe less than the day before.