mser's, this applies to everybody and is short and just for you to think about.
!. How do YOU see yourself?
2. How do YOU want others to see YOU?
3. What are YOU willing to do to have people look at YOU the way YOU want to be looked at?
4. the BIG one, do YOU really care what people think when they see YOU?, WHY?
Just think about it YOU do not need to tell me, just think about it for yourself. You know the answer can change, YOU are not condemned to be only one thing forever.
Was an airman, then a pilot, then disabled, now something else, I think.