Newbies and msER.s If You can not do something RIGHT NOW. That is OKAY, ease up on yourself. take a moment, perhaps try a different way of doing it. Even do not do it at all. It was not that important was it? Seriously in the scheme of things, who cares?
I am not saying just stop, vegetate in the corner and grow leaves. We all have a very long walk ahead of us. It is not just we are going to live until we are 90+, we have to do it with a chronic disease as our constant companion.
So all in all my friend, EASE UP be GENTLE with yourself. I understand that it is challenging at times. I as well used to be able to DO life at 100 miles per hour, but do YOU know now at 20miles per hour the view is much nicer and I still get things done. Actually, I get to pick the really important things and just let the rest slide.
My dog is important, my family is important. Okay one or two of them, the rest well, I shall decide tomorrow maybe, maybe not. Do not take 2 years, take a serious look around and decide what YOU have to do & what You can let slide. It may take a little while, but learn this and your ms journey can be so much easier. YOU are not less of a person because YOU can not or will not do something.
Protect yourself always as best YOU can.
polishing my armour plates