I HATE THE HOLIDAYS

hello all i am 49 divorced with 2 kids, i havent seen my children since one since the divorce 8 years ago and my youngest since i told her i had breast cancer, i am so tired of being alone and nobody caring for me i dont know what i did to deserve to be alone. i have had m.s. for 20 years now

[Jesmcd2 CommunityAmbassador]

Hi Hidden I can understand being down during the holidays. Took me a bit to get into the spirit this year. I'm sorry your family has chosen to react that way. But please know that, it isn't your fault.

Only you can choose how You react.😊💕

I truly hope that you can find this home!💕 One thing for sure my new friend is you won't be alone for long here!

Welcome!

Jes 🌠🎄

[jackiesj]

I am sorry to hear this.You certainly deal with enough each day.Do you have anyone that can pick up a card for you children or get a letter out.Even if they don't receive it the act of doing it makes you feel active(been there a bit))....Breast cancer is frightening to all especially children.They don't know what they may see or do.My kids even with contact on phone are away this season most of the year. If you are up to a visit have friends bring their kids over.It is not the same but I find serving others little ones does help.I hope your doc does know how aweful this can be.I am sorry for your lonliness...jj

[jimeka]

Hidden welcome and hi 👋. It is not a nice situation to be in. Our children are all individuals and some can handle their mum being ill and others can't. Mine just ignore, I think they think it will go away. Having ms is hard enough on its own, but to get something else as well can be hard to bare. I truly hope that your breast cancer is under control, and the treatment is not making the ms any worse. Maybe you could cry out to your daughters, tell them how much you love them, and you need their support. Maybe they are scared. Both of my sisters have breast cancer, so I understand a little. Vent on here as much as you want, we are all good listeners. Blessings Jimeka 🎄🤗

[erash]

Hidden

We are always here for you. 💕

[bxrmom]

Hidden I'm sorry you have breast cancer on top of your MS. We are all hear to listen if you need to vent. Gentle hugs.

Jessie

[doveflyfree]

Hi honey!!

I know how you feel and I am very sorry that your children aren't talking to you and being supportive. I don't have a big support system but now I am trying to create a loving family of my own. This site is a lifesaver!!! And you get love and support from us!! I recently started to look for a new family. I received a text anonymous that said I am a burden on my family and to find a new family. It crushed me. Then I posted it on here and started reaching out to MS Society and MS Foundation and other resources and now I am surrounding myself with people who are loving supportive caring knowledgeable and sooo helpful. The other's can go by the wayside!!! They can honestly screw off!!!

I am here for you!!! You can message me anytime!!! I will love you unconditionally and support you no matter what!!!! Sometimes you have to take charge of your life and let go of people that bring you down!!! It's helped me a lot doing that!!!

I love you!!!

Hugs and kisses to you!!!

[BigMar7]

It’s hard enough having MS at holiday time. Try to do something you enjoy, you are not alone. We are all here for you. 😀

[doveflyfree in reply to BigMar7]

It sure is hard especially at the holidays. I'm really struggling with accepting I have MS. I denied it for years. I'm beginning to accept it cuz it's turned my life into a wicked hurricane!!! I'm devastated by MS!! The MS Society said they would help with some things but it's difficult being patient. I'm praying for mercy and comfort and friendship and love. I'm sorry to bother you with my personal problems .

I'm trying hard to stay positive!!! My mother abandoned and rejected us then I found out that she had MS too. She died before I got to see her again. Her heart gave out. She died on her birthday. I'm just devastated by MS.

I'm sorry for everyone with MS!!!