Since I grew up in an environment with my dad, trying to control everything, I ended up with OCD which is basically having things in control.
I am trying to get control of the situation, by doing checking and repetition rituals.
I am making sure that no mistakes are made about anything.
I wanted to share some insight into this by what I found while reading a book.
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Other patients also reflect on their childhoods and their genetic legacies in attempting to find answers to why they developed OCD. Certainly, genetics does seem to play a role. Again and again, patients have told me of mothers or sisters or grandparents who certainly had OCD tendencies long before the disease was given a label. Formal studies show the same thing: OCD tends to run in families. Frequently, parents of people with OCD were rigid and inflexible and became very uncomfortable if things weren’t done in a certain way.
Schwartz, Jeffrey M.. Brain Lock: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior . HarperCollins. Kindle Edition.
I asked my therapist and he told me its all about ones character and if he/she has some characteristics then he might develop OCD.
From youtube videos I have found that it is serotonin imbalance but reading <<getting over ocd >> (Jonathan Ambramowitz) , he says that its not about serotonin imbalance and it is not an OCD gene . It is anxiety proneness genes likely interact with other factors to cause OCD.(learning and enviromental factors) and he says that having ocd is not your or anyones else's fault.
Howerver I feel the same as you, my father wants to control everything , he is worried about silly things like if I closed the car ,If I lost the keys of the car and things like that, and in general he is checking many things like the receipt of the supermaket bill, so maybe I have OCD because my father .
Jonathan Ambramowitz in his book says that scientific research has shown that the theory about serotonin imbalance is wrong and it is the other stuff that you mentioned above => traumatic event ,anxiety genes and other factors .
My 2 cents (I have a Master's in Counseling, and I have seen OCD inherited from me to my son) are that it is a mix of "nature" AND "nurture". My father, my son, and myself, were born with a genetic predisposition for OCD. Theoretically, if my son had been reared by someone who does not have OCD, he may not have developed it. In the case of my father, he actually taught me his behaviors on purpose (hand washing, etc. Things that make sense but going overboard with the amount of time spent doing them). I had an interesting behavior in which I thought touching things added weight to me, and therefore if I touched something with a part of my body (accidentally or otherwise), I had to touch the same thing in the same place with the same part of my body on the other side (left hand, right hand, etc.) I didn't tell anyone about this until my son started doing the exact same thing.
We'll, my OCD fellows explained very well. And it's true in my case. My father had depression and possibly OCD and I had a trigger(my parents diying of cancer very young and at the same time) that develop the symptoms. But I made my mind long time ago not worrying about the cause but focus on the solution. In my case meds, ERP,ACT and hope. Let's do it!💪
My father has been deceased for many years, but I recognize that he must have suffered from OCD as well; he was very rigid and inflexible with his children. He seemed to need to push us away from any affection. I may conjecture that he had paedophile OCD because he was terrified of his little daughters; he was also terrified of homosexuals. He must have suffered terribly. But, of course, he lived in a era when there was no understanding of such things. I may have inherited his HOCD. I now fear for my adult son. I don't know how to open up a conversation about the genetic component of OCD. My family is not receptive to wanting to know anything about my OCD. They think I am being dramatic and making it all up. Thank goodness there is a community of people online who understand, support and educate about this affliction. It is a game changer.
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