I'm a 15 years old, and this might sound bizzare and maybe a bit of a reach, but I feel so horrible inside because of it.
I was talking on the phone with my dad about 20 minutes ago maybe, and as he was speaking, the phone was slightly vibrating from it. For some reason this triggered me to have a groinal response, just bc I was afraid of the feeling happening, and so I lifted my head away from my phone (I was laying on the bed with my head on top of the phone). Then I placed the side of my head back on top of my phone to listen to what he was saying. For a split second, I thought that I wanted to get the response, as a way of proving that I wasn't trying to get it before, when it did happen (because I always question if I tried to get a groinal response or not). Then I got this horrible feeling inside, as if I just ruined my whole relationship with my dad for good. And as I thought about it, I had the urge (I didn't do it) to do the same thing again! And it felt like I was actually about to do it. As a way of proving that I wasn't proving, that I was proving, that I wasn't proving, that I tried to have a groinal response. Yeah I know this is really confusing, but I can't think of a better way to explain it. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm so afraid that I've basically ruined my whole relationship with him. My family is so important to me, and now I feel like I've ruined my relationship with my mom, my sister, my sister's boyfriend (I consider him family), my brother, my dad, and my grandma. These are the people I care about most, and I'm afraid that I have damaged our relationships for good, because I've thought that I attempted to have a groinal response to all of them, and I don't even know if I have or not. And my groinal response isn't actually sexual and I know that. It's just from focusing on that area, and being afraid of having that response. So if I tried to get it, that wouldn't be considered something sexual right? I feel so lost and unsure of myself all the time.
One of the worst parts is now I'll see my dad and think of this, and I'm afraid I won't be able to have a good relationship with him now because of this. I hate this so much. I love my family, I just wish I could be around them without feeling immense guilt.