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Evening everyone , looking for some support/advice , my best friend told me she’s pregnant with her third child last night . I feel like my hearts been torn to shreds again with the reminder of my own infertility . I genuinely want to be happy for her but I can’t even bring myself to talk to her it feels so raw . How have you dealt with pregnancy announcements , especially those of very close friends

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Rach4152

I get how you feel. A close friend of mine is pregnant with second child, unplanned. And I’m busy trying to see if I can afford just one more try at IVF.

I smile and ask how it’s going and say lovely things. Inside I’m dying. It’s very very hard.

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lisssa9

I can relate. Such days like this one are really sad for me and my dh. Especially seeing others with children everywhere. Seeing all those posts on facebook… It's not fair at all. Some of us here desperate for a baby. Meanwhile others don't want them or don't plan to have them. It's just happen. I don't know what to say except "LIFE'S SUCKS". The only thing we can do is try to be more positive and hope for the best. And don't put things in mind that can stress you out or even mentally disturb you. Ignore things outside and focus on you to conceive. I wish you the best. Hopefully each of us will have BFP. Take care.

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Esrh

I know exactly how you feel one of my partners friend announced she pregnant and I broke down crying it’l the sadness and the jealous that kicks in .

I didn’t even reply to her message I had to delete it off my phone cause the pain was too much .

Sometimes you have to be selfish until people understand the paib

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