I have been in this site for a while as a silent reader and sneakily taking notes here and there to help my long friend called depression. But right now I think I got something that I really needed to get out of my system. So thanks in advance for anyone who willing to read, giving some respond, and I am very sorry for my bad grammar.
First of all, i always been a "dreamer", not in a kind of dreamer as in realistic life goals, but more like..."fantasies" that i always hope will happen my life. It was like.. one thing that keeps me going in life is that one hope that my "fantasy/dream" will become reality. My fantasy is not anything special actually, in most case it was simply about how i want to be special, how i want to be part of some amazing or nice life "scene".
To be more specific, most of them are about the typical scene that u would found in the novel, movie, or comic about school life, "the wonder of school uniform time" or so on (i hope all of you can get my meaning from this confusing word of mine haha). Its like... special encounter on an empty classroom, how i can be the main character of some school event like field trip, how i actually have some special gift that everyone acknowledges, and any more event where.. i.. can actually for a moment be the center of...anyone attention??
Most of my hopeful fantasy is that kind of thing that can only happen in "student time", but soon my time as a student will be over yet not even one of those hope has come true. I know i have to move one, be more realistic, but i just keep being disconnected from life. The point is...i want to be special, but i know like how things are.. i was just another ordinary people, with ordinary life. but it hard to accept that..to actually felt content with ordinariness?? can someone tell me how to? can actually someone give me some advice about accepting reality yet still able to fell happy? or maybe i just have some narcissists side that i don't want to admit??
p.s i know and believe that "everybody is special in their own way" but please dont give me that, cause i know some special type is more "desirable" for me.
p.p.s i am sorry if i talk in such roundabout and confusing way, i know i just some blabber but i really hope. someone understand