What's the point In anything anymore.

[Jwhyte]

What's the point in life? I'm in a relationship and at the moment it's not looking good. She's all I've got and if it finishes I'll have nothing worth living for. I just feel like ending it I feel like it will be So much easier. I don't understand what is the actuall point.

[Strongheartforever]

Maybe you two aren’t compatible and maybe someone else is and if you hang on and grit your teeth through the blinding pain and fear of a breakup, you may end up with a more loving and fulfilling relationship than you could have ever imagined. Breakups are extremely traumatic and cause the human brain to spiral into darkness but you have to know that there is a whole planet full of people and many are looking for someone like you. I know all too well the panic and pain you’re in. It’s real true pain but it’s also attachment and illusion and you just need to get through one minute, one day, one hour at a time and it hurts SO bad but every step will get a little easier. It feels like being beat up in a dark alley. You are sore, you are broken, you are weak. You don’t even know where you are or what day it is. Nothing seems to matter. All the pain of the world descends upon you. But I promise there is someone who will love you again. That love is waiting for you. You will heal sooner than you think. Don’t give away your life and your power so easily. You can message me anytime and I’ll support you and walk with you through this.

[Add2]

Life doesn't depend on a single person, maybe after finishing this relationship, you will be lucky enough to experience real love with another person. and maybe all these thoughts are just in your head so you have to be patient and wait and see what will happen

[MAS_Nurse]

Hello Jwhyte,

Welcome to our supportive community. Well done for taking a brave step out of your comfort zone to reach out for help. Hopefully, you will find folks here are only too willing to come alongside you and share from their personal journeys and experiences.

You are obviously having a difficult time right now, and we take everything you say very seriously. I would urge you to talk about your situation with your doctor or mental health professional, so they can help you through this. Your life is valuable and worth living for. Sometimes it is hard to see beyond the immediate situation we find ourselves in, we can't see the wood for the trees so to speak. Depending on one particular person for giving meaning to your life is not helpful or healthy. Maybe start to broaden your range of friendships and build a network of friends. Start to try to finding meaning in a hobby or new interests that you can do independently of each other. Most marriages and lifelong partners, need time away from each other, pursuing other things. It doesn't mean we love each the less, in fact, it enhances and enriches our relationships the more.

Do check out our Pinned Post section for free mental health guides, international crisis support helplines.

Keep in touch!

Best wishes,

MAS Nurse