Older advise please

[680238]

Hi I'm giving life a really good go but had some hiccups the ex won't leave me alone she is always after money for the little one and fair enough if I was a millionaire I give her money every week on the dot but well I donno

[mysmugcat]

Are you saying you give her regular money as to what you can afford? Is it a reasonable amount?

[Hidden]

Well if the little one is yours then you should be taking your share of responsibility towards your child. It's not just the cost of feeling and clothing him/her but needing a bigger place to live etc. x

[MAS_Nurse]

Hello 680238

I am glad you are giving life a really good go but get the feeling there is more going on for you here...?

[20Voices]

Hi, It sounds like there is a lot going on in your life and it sounds like you have a whole lot of problems going on.Why don't you seek advise on this matter. It is important that both you and your ex provide for your child, but I have seen so many occasions where people I know have had problems because they couldn't agree with the ex who should be paying what. I've seen guys refusing to pay anything and I have also seen women trying to bleed their exs dry and using the money for anything but spending on the child. Both situations are not fair and it is usually the child that gets hurt the most in these cases.

Check out what advise and help you can get in your area.