NOT SURE

[David26]

why does every thing i do or try to go wrong seems the light's are but no one home

just paid out to get work but even that's failed so i feel what chance have i got so fed up

get really arsey and sarky when spoken to wife has to put up with a lot she means the world to me as dose our parrot

[Delzek]

David things don't always happen the way we want,I used to love working had a breakdown then physical problems that now make me unable to work! Instead of getting sarky or arsey try telling your Wife how your feeling,it may help! As a Parrot carer ( my friends are Parrots who I care for and they are the bosses in my home) I know your Parrot friend will feel any tension in your home and will be reacting differently, never pay to get work there are lots of agencies about where I am and probably in your area as well.

If money is tight there are things that dont cost anything but your time! Involving your Wife walks in the countryside can even turn into a spontaneous amorous adventure (I know that for a fact) Cinemas have special days when you buy one ticket and get one free all sorts of things,Most important if you Really Love your Wife "talking about your feelings"could help keep you both as Man and Wife,locking her out by being sarky and arsey could make her walk away. Be fair to yourself and your Wife Talk !

[Goldfish_]

In depression we focus on the negatives. Try and find some positives in the day and concentrate on those

[Olderal]

David , not everything you try goes wrong, that is the sort of thinking that depression or even low feelings can cause. Its hard to combat but for the sake of those you love ,including Polly, you have to fight it and keep trying and battling.

If these negative thoughts persist you should talk to your wife about it and jointly agree as to whether you should see your GP for help.

Through this time your wife is your very best friend and you should be man enough to show her how much her love and support means to you. Its very important not to antagonise those who you love. Buy the parrot a special treat by all means but cherish your wife much more. I know parrots can fly and she can't but your wife will be much more important to you until you find work.

Olderal