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I fell in love with the guy next door, who simply didn’t feel the same way about me. Rejection STINGS, I’m left with pain, it’s a HIT to the self-esteem... but time and love and distractions from friends, co-workers and family will heal everything.

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warren218

Part of life I suppose, no-one wants to be on the receiving end of it, but honesty is best.  Keep going :)

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Photogeek

Oh that must be hard, but in cases of love , time does heal and keep yourself

Really busy, thinking of you anyway and please look after yourself.

Hannah 

You just have to believe you are satisfied with your life?  x

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Guccigirl

Yes it does sting, but it also leaves the door open for mr right to come along and enter.dont think you where rejected by him, think oh well he wasn't right to get into my life.when the right person comes you will wonder why you even bothered with the guy next door.

In another way we suffer rejection every day as people exclude us thinking we are faking an illness, gosh I wish I could give them it for a day,but I just think now,,,oh well you where not good enough to enter my world.

Better to surround yourself with people wh do not reject you in any way, don't waste your energy on this guy ,just start to look forward to the right one coming along!

Your heart will heal,I promise

Guccigirl x

Life can be so hard  when we feel rejected, give it time, plenty people here will listen

It would be a wonderful thing if we could go outside and meet a soul mate waiting for us at the bus stop and we would live happy ever after. Sad, or not so sad we generally have to wait to find that soul mate. Hopefully when you find that right person you will know and be able to move on together.

This man was just not the right one, you are best to know at the beginning.

Keep a hold

BOB

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Iluvhorses

It sounds like you're handling it well. Just know that his rejection has nothing to do with your looks or anything you do. He simply doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Also I would suggest that you don't hang out with him (if you are) until you're completely over him as doing so would just set you up for more heartbreak.

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