Caroline

Has anyone heard from Caroline over the last month. ?

David seems to has gone AWOL as well ?

BOB

[Hidden]

Hi I have seen David. Caroline often disappears for weeks on end then suddenly pops back up again Bev x

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Hello Bev

Yes can imagine that with Caroline

Bobx

[Golfer15]

Hi Bob, Im still around but havent posted on here much lately. I started a part time job recently which I have been concentrating on. Unfortunately I had to stop this on Tuesday as it was causing too much anxiety and I wasnt coping very well.

We have to realise we have limitations. I was only working 9 hours at £9 per hour. I dont like to admit it but Im better off on benefit! That is another long story which I wont bore you with. Im struggling to stay on ESA as I have been told Im fit to work, but I disagree hence leaving this job.

It is difficult to get people to understand how this illness affects everything!

Hope you are well.

David

[janey61 in reply to Golfer15]

It is so hard ...I suffer anxiety ...and I sympathise ,,,I,m not sure how this site works as there seems to be people that are in little clicks which isn't good for those of us that suffer paranoia lol ...I have posted a few times ...bad dat today and have logged in a bit and seen some posts ....don't be too hard on yourself ...anxiety is horrible and with the esa being so tough we just need to stand our ground about our limitations .....hope it's a bit better for you right. Now ,,,,,stick to your guns and maybe one day the anxiety will improve you are not alone

[Golfer15 in reply to janey61]

Thanks for the reply.

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Hello Janey

You seem to have been on these pages for quite a time, we all like to chat with each other on here. You have been on here since 2013. So feel free to chat. It is nice to give support to people who have been on here for long or short periods of time.

I understand your boyfriend is suffering mixed health problems and of course that will be making you feel sensitive to his needs and understandably that will make you feel not very well.

How can We help ??

BOB

[janey61 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for that Bob , I have anxiety depression borderline and M.E , my eldest is agoraphobic and doesn't work , lives in my house , my youngest has a brain injury and hemiplegic autism and epilepsy , and yes my partner is now diabetic and has a heart complaint ...I am trying to take things a day at a time ...just wish this had a chat room but I guess this could be fraught with problems. how are you today ? The sun is out in essex so hope to repot my tomatoes today ....thanks for your kindness it is appreciated

[Hidden in reply to janey61]

Hello Janey

We generally chat here where members work on a privacy setting where only members can see the replies etc.

If you need to contact anyone if you are registered we or others can talk in private, the only problem there is you only get ideas from a restricted number of people who you wish to contact.

Go back to the privacy setting page and press member secure setting, that mean that you will see all replies and members will see yours as well.

If you have problems read the notes where you first registered.

BOB

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Hello David

Suppose you will need to talk to your GP and tell Him the stress you were suffering from as I suppose you will need a friend to fight your corner

We are busy after our holiday, gardens know how to bite you on the bum when they have not been attended to for a time. We were lucky to have good next doors etc.

Will be taking a day off Saturday and Hazel will take the Pax for a run on the beach.

BOB

[Golfer15 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Bob.