my grandma and mom are evil

[ainaa16]

so basically i come home and my mom complains about me not doing anything right. she basically torments and tells on me and then my stupid grandma joins and goes on and on about how imperfcect i am on one thing and then continues and starts to count all the things i did wrong in the past few years. i srsly hate them.

[Photogeek]

Hi there, I'm sorry your having a bad time with your Mom and Grandmother ,

I'm not sure what age you are. I think you are fairly young. Is your Mom specific

About your wrongs , is it school or what. Parents are usually trying to

Do the best for their children, so they are probably nagging you because

They are concerned.

Young people do come I to conflict with parents , so your on your own.

Is there any other family member you could talk things over with? Or what

About your dad? Or even. Teacher.

It's always good to get a second opinion .

Hannah

[Yalak]

Dear Ainaa

I realized that we should allow others to be what they want to be. We cannot change them. They cannot change us. Transformation starts from within out and never from outside in. People are trying to reform others. I can assure you that to try to change or reform people, is a total waste of time and energy. We have not only to accept people the way they are, but above all to understand them, because they cannot be otherwise. It will be a great relief to you. Thinking is usually the biggest obstacle to understanding things and people. Your mother and your grandmother, your friends and those who are unfriendly to you, they don´t want to be different from what they are. They will always think, feel, act and react the way they do. I am sure that this insight based on my own understanding and experience, will touch you for good.

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Hi

Oh it does sound as though people are getting you down at the moment. Good for you for expressing your feelings, it's important to have somewhere to rant, but I'm sorry you feel so negatively about your mom and grandma. It's sad to feel things are so bad between you all. If it helps then do write more about that here as talking about things can really make a difference.

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