Erection/Climaxing

[FrustratedMale]

I has a circumcision 3 weeks ago, and having trouble getting and keeping an erection. When having sex, unable to climax. Even tried masterbating while watching porn....nothing! Please tell me this is normal and will "heal itself"! Any comment or suggestion would be greatly appreciated, thanks...

[S2BC]

Very short answer: It’s too early. Wait 6 to 8 weeks and try then again. Take care.

[Hidden in reply to S2BC]

I can only agree. This time is the advised wait.

[FrustratedMale in reply to S2BC]

Lol.....waiting.....not my forte! Even harder (no pun intended) when wife is walking around half naked and showing me "the goods"....

[Hidden in reply to FrustratedMale]

Talk to her about your situation.

[roddythescot]

You should not be trying to masturbate (even less have sex) at this stage as you can interfere with the healing.

Your body is telling you not to do it at present. Wait 6-8 weeks from the operation before doing these and your libido should have returned.

[FrustratedMale in reply to roddythescot]

God I hope so...thanks for the advice

[Carl33]

I know it’s really hard to wait. But, it will be worth it and quite explosive!

[FrustratedMale in reply to Carl33]

😄

[Suraj92]

Just wait for your thing to heal buddy. Its 8 months now after my op...And I am enjoying my new life a lot

[pogchamp]

How bad does morning wood hurt, like boners too

[Stones331305]

It’s only 3 weeks since your circumcision, you should really be leaving it to heal for at least 6 weeks before having intercourse or masturbating..... be patient everything will be ok 👍

[Soham007]

i ejaculated twice after day 10, although i didnt touch the penis (felt pain afterwards but was ok overall) if you are that frustrated watch some soft porn without touching you'll ejaculate. ejaculation does feel different.

[drew15401]

You shouldn’t have been having sex! You may be healed on top but the tissue and nerves underneath are still not settled from your circumcision. Hopefully you didn’t further delay your healing by having sex way too soon.

[YumTea]

As some others have recommended you need to wait.

It takes 7-8 weeks for it to heal enough for you to be ready for any sexual activity. Erections can be painful while you are healing because it puts pressure on the scar which has not yet healed. Many people also get tears on their scars due to the erections. So if you aren’t getting reflections then you are lucky that you won’t tear or stress your scars while you are still healing.

Be patient and heal properly and it will all get resolved in time.